so a long story short a person who I thought I was friends with was really rude to me after I came out as being aroflux so I sent him these quotes and he hasn't tried to talk to me since

"Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean it isn't so." ― Lemony Snicket, The Blank Book

"Talk sense to a fool and he calls you foolish." ― Euripides, The Bacchae

"Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply." ― Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change