person: Hey Nika, have you dated anyone?
me: no
person: Why?
me (in my mind): Why do you care and why do I need to explain myself to you? Also my romantic and sexual orientaion is something I'm not sure about. I might just like boys. I might be lithioromantic. I might be gray asexual. Can we not talk abou this?
me: most people I like are fictional or actors
person: Like who?
me: (names a foreign actor)
person: oh

I hate being put on the spot