So today, in lunch, I was taking a personality quiz, and one of the questions were "Are you a leader or a follower?"

And I got confuzzled because it really depends on the situation.

But then I was asked to list one time I lead someone in my group of friends.

Friends.

You can't just take charge of your friends.

Legit, this is my #2 pet peeve XD

WHY IN THE WORLD SHOULD I CONTROL MY FRIENDS

AND WHY IN THE WORLD SHOULD I FOLLOW MY FRIENDS

Let me explain.

In a group of friends, no one is superior to another.

They are all equal.

No one is the boss of another.

INSTEAD, friends are supposed to support and guide each other, whether if it's for some sort of derpy fandom (like telling which ship is not safe to look up :3) or if it's for something serious, like family or other unavoidable drama.

Lets say for the building thing in STEM when we built a tower, no one was superior to the rest.

Everyone is equal, and we were all open to ideas.

If you were in a group that was chosen by the teacher, and you arent close friends with the people, then you can take charge or follow.

In that case, most of the time I end up in charge cause life if I know what im doing with the project :3

But if it's for something like in the middle school when I was confused with what jobs to assign people in gym, then some dude who knows about the jobs and such take control cause life

But then they didn't let the rest state their opinions cause they were so full of themselves.

It's just, BRUH

I KNOW I DIDNT KNOW WHAT I WAS DOING EARLIER BUT NONE OF US ARE HELPLESS

If you're going to take charge, do it right.

You are never the ultimate superior.

If you are with friends, no one's superior to another.

Even if you are a leader, actually lead the group right.

If you are in charge, you aint doing all the work.

If you are a follower, you aint doing nothing.

But you wanna know the biggest problem I had with this?

I was being defined the exact opposite of how I will become.

I am not the person who I want to be yet.

Even now, I am not being the person who I know I am supposed to be.

And I hate it.

I want to be a person who no one knows about yet.

You don't know it, at least before now, but Im slowly becoming that person every single day.

I know it.

Don't you dare tell me otherwise.

Do not define me as the person who I am trying to get rid of.

That person in elementary school?

That's not me.

I will never be that pathetic ever again.

I will never be that weak ever again.

I will never be someone who I am truly not ever again.

Do not define me as the person I used to be, cause that was never truly me.
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Sorry, if I didn't do this I wouldn't be able to sleep tonight XD
I STILL WOVE YOU :3

But seriously, those are my two biggest pet peeves XD