All maids and butlers have the same room, except for the head maid and butler, and their children. No, they are not married or together in anyway possible. You can come and talk to them anytime!

Violaine's Room-

Isleen's Room-

David's Room-

Ryker's Room-

Other maid's rooms-

Two maids share a room together.

Other butler's rooms

Two butlers share a room together.