When you're asexual

Based on this request on my tumblr blog:

can i request something please — an asexual reader x lnds boys... like, the game has some sexual undertones which i dont mind (im ace too) but still 👉👈 I'd like to read how they would react

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The LGBTQ Center from the the University of North Carolina at chapel hill:

Asexual – A term used to describe someone who does not experience sexual attraction toward individuals of any gender. Asexuality is a sexual orientation, and is different from celibacy, in that celibacy is the choice to refrain from engaging in sexual behaviors and does not comment on one's sexual attractions. An asexual individual may choose to engage in sexual behaviors for various reasons even while not experiencing sexual attraction. Asexuality is an identity and sexual orientation; it is not a medical condition. Sexual attraction is not necessary for a person to be healthy.

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As your relationship with him progresses you get more and more anxious because the closer both of you get, the more physical intimacy approaches. And it's not that you don't have feelings for him, you just don't have the need to express your love that way. For you, love comes without the need to unite your body and so you come to the realization that you need to talk about it.


Zayne

As a doctor Zayne understands where you're coming from. In his career he often meet patients with an asexual orientation 

He sits down with you in the sofa in his apartment and as he holds you in his embrace he asks you how you feel about it 

He wants to know your boundaries, which intimacy is fine with you and which you don't want

Zayne wants you to feel comfortable around him. Knowing what you like and don't like and how far with intimacy you want to go, sets him at ease.

Because after all, he just wants to be with you, no matter if you're doing "it" or not and communicating your needs is elementary for this


Rafayel

Is a bit irritated in the first moment and need to be explained what this means

After searching up the term and your explanations, he fully understands and supports you

He takes your hand in his and assures you that there is no need for him to be with you in that way.

Just spend time with him, holding hands and don't forget about him is all that matters for him

He will never do anything that you're not comfortable with because you're his most precious pearl in the entire ocean


Xavier

After you told him that you're ace he holds his chin, saying nothing for a few minutes and processing that Information 

After some consideration you get his best innocent blue eyes bunny look

And he asks you if cuddles and nap times together are still a thing or if he needs to abstain from this

With a laugh you assure him that this is alright, and you are being immediately pulled onto his beanie chair for a cuddly nap 

Murmuring he tells you that he loves you in every way and he'll never leave you again 


Sylus

Isn't surprised at all, to be honest he just waited for you to tell him that you're ace. He watched over you for so long, he already acknowledged your asexuality

And as flirty and bold as he is often with you, he assures you that you don't need to be afraid of him

He would never to anything to harm you or to scare you away

And there are other ways to show how much he adores you and to cherish your body 

He doesn't have this black card for no reason... he plans to spoil you rotten so you always knew that you're loved even without physical interactions and touches In the end, there is no love purer than his...

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