I don't intend to offend any party here okay? I made myself clear, I absolutely have no intention to. This is something I've experienced first hand, so I will state my situation; I don't wish to "accuse" or "assume" that this happens in other places or is done my other people as well. Though, it is completely possible that this will happen in your area, so please be cautious.

Let's begin shall we?

This is something I've heard from a lot of people: Driving instructor will take advantage or their jobs to harass their female students.

I never doubted that, I knew it was true. I knew there's a possibility it'll happen to me as well, but I dismissed that thought. I understand that I'm a pessimistic person, so I have always tried to push away negative thoughts of myself and others.

If you're of age and you're taking your lessons in Malaysia, PLEASE, I beg of you, LOOK FOR FEMALE INSTRUCTORS NO MATTER HOW HARD THE SITUATION IS. There are many, but there are more males. Don't get me wrong, I love my country and I'm not saying this only happens in Malaysia. But this is something I experienced in Malaysia.

Next, please AVOID ASKING THEM TO SEND YOU BACK AND FORTH DIRECTLY TO AND FROM YOUR HOUSE. Plan a meet up place nearby your house and stop them from knowing where you live. I know that their office will have your details, but they may not be that desperate to check. ...hopefully.

Just try your very best to avoid depending on them for transport. I'm serious about this. It's not funny. It isn't a joke. It's scary.

I'm saying because they may insist on having tea at your house or just visiting you house for whatever reason. Especially when you're usually alone at home or there's someone at home who isn't strong enough to fight in any way, then you're in trouble. This isn't a matter of being nice or whatever, your safety is priority. If he insists on coming in and refuses to leave, contact the police right away. Let him know that you dare to take legal actions.

Please be careful and avoid making him angry, just be quiet and polite, don't be friendly. It's the safest route, from my experience. My instructor do not disturb those people. If you made your instructor angry and he knows where you live or where you study in, there is a chance that he'll disturb you.

I'm warning you beforehand, don't be too late to take any actions like me.

I'm absolutely terrified right now but thankfully my lessons are over and my test is coming. Just after that one day, he'll have nothing to do with me anymore and so, he has no reason to contact or whatsoever. If he does, I will not hesitate to report him to the main office or to the police if things went too far.

As of now, I don't have strong evidence to report him to the police. I can only hope for the best and avoid him as much as possible.

Convince your parents or guardian and arrange transport with someone trustable.

Don't regret before it's too late.