Have you ever been so angry on someone that you wished something very bad for them?

Angry, this word is dangerous than hatred. When it rolls over to your mind, you are definitely going to end up doing something wrong. Anger in mind ends up in wrong doings.

Now connect your anger to forgiveness, are they connecting? Never ever it is going to happen. People fill their mind with so much anger that they feel that the person responsible for this should be rewarded with revenge.

When this anger turns into revenge and hatred then our attitude towards viewing the situation start's changing. If you are thinking attitude changes in good way, sorry you are mistaken, your attitude changes in a bad way. You stop seeing good in others and moreover you start seeing everyone with hatred eyes and in belief that they would backstab you. But all these affect your attributes in your character that stands first in front of people.

Revenge is an extreme case of hatred. Though this gives us a satisfaction for brief period of time but a long term regret for doing something wrong. When we start hating someone due to their behaviour or the way they used us, these all reasons are basic building blocks of revenge.

If I take an instance from my own experience, 4 years back when I was in my class 10th my class teacher demoralised me just few weeks before of my finals. She throughout the session told me that I would never get a good CGPA and definitely I won't be alloted my favourable subject. At that moment I had a grudge against her, I wrote a line in my diary, "I might end up killing her." After few months of completing my finals I was just flipping through a book, where I read about revenge, hatred and consequences. After reading it I realised that these all revenge part has made a negative person building inside me.

And that was the first time in my life I realised how hatred and revenge ruin our identity. It fills negativity inside our mind and soul without our knowledge. The revenge plotting labels attributes like hate, estrangement, hostility and moving our mind far way from reality.

We people believe in "taste of your own medicine", this fact make us believe in revenge. It's good to teach someone lesson for their mistakes but teaching them that in the way they did it is really wrong. Then there will be no difference between you and the other person.

Forgive the one who cheated you, used you, abused you etc. Forgiveness completely doesn't mean mend your relationship with these people again. But just give them good smack without touching. Now that can only be done with your success and triumph. Then you don't have to look back at them. Because they have lost their pride to suppress you again.

Forgiveness will remove your negative thoughts and will bring you back to your way to your goals.

"Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much."-Oscar Wilde.

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