A blessing in disguise

When something bad happens at first we don't see good points in that particular situation.

But why do we take the worst situations as the bad and best situations as good?

How to wonder because we are born and brought up like that by our surroundings. We feel bad and toughest in those situations which are hard to pass through because we don't get any happiness but in a situation which is in your favour we feel the happiness and thus we feel more difficult to accept a difficult situation or circumstance.

But the thing that we never appreciate about tough situations are the lessons that it teach us. We never give a thought to the moment when we are out of those toughest situations which take away our days and night. The situations are the ones which teach us the real meaning of our existence and which we are so carefree to hear about because we are least bothered when we are happy.

So that means we should always jump up in toughest situations? No, you don't need to do those things because life gives you those situations when you are required to face it and these situations have a solution with them but often we get so tensed and feared that we get blind even when the solution is in right front of us. Those toughest and difficult situations are the only one which makes you stronger and intelligent towards your life and that helps you to make others understand who fall into these situations.

SO how to remember what a situation teach us? Very easy, but very difficult to do. I read in one of my favourite books that writing a diary helps you to improve yourself. Now, why is it difficult, because new habits are least indulged in daily chores. So try to write what you have learned daily in your diary. And once in a while look back and have a read then you will feel a new person in you.  

But moving back to the title, what is most important is making yourself so strong that you can accept the situation which is not difficult for you but should be challenging for you. And nevertheless, you will understand later or sooner how the toughest situation makes you the strongest person in you itself.

So at the end what I would like to say is accept the situation as it comes to you, be it bad or good, just accept it and fight it back like a warrior.

  We must accept finite disappointment but never lose infinite hope.-Martin Luther King, Jr.

Thank You

ANSHITA NAIR

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