We are who we choose to be

So what do you choose to be? A question that I should ask at the end of this chapter but why at beginning of the chapter?

Because even if you admit and even if you say that you do what you had chosen to do but then also in this life and its journey we all, at some point in our life had made opinions on others choice. Though we regret it, yes, we all have forgotten at times to choose ourselves rather than others decisions and opinions.

We do have difficulties in making certain decisions in our life. For times we do take help from our elders or the one who has experienced it. But we forget what our needs are?

Let's not just talk about decisions but about oneself and thinkings. We are always bound to hear people around us and all are thinkings be like "what might be the person thinking about me". These questions about others perspective towards us are what affect us. We are too much into the opinions of others that slowly we ruin our own self-built physical image.

We are so attracted to this society that we start living the way they accept us. But are we happy? No, we are not truly happy because we are living for others. For once start living for yourself. This society should accept us in the way we are. If something has to change, then it is the societies thinking.

Look around those bold people, who stood against the society, but never changed their view about themselves. Society will change when they see the rebel in you. There are many examples around us, transgenders who live so bold in our society, who find it difficult to accept and respect them. To the bold women who stand against the cruel society to proclaim their words.

Now the most important question how to be ourselves? It is not difficult, it just require some efforts. For once don't let this society ruin you for their thoughts are corrupted. Make your thoughts your way.

The very first thing required is to gather facts about yourself. We are least aware of ourself and facts about us. Gather ten facts about yourself, if you can. Believe in the traits that enhance your personality. Don't hide what you are perfect for. The traits in your personality will help you to make certain yet correct decision in life.

Secondly don't act or inculcate the traits that are forced by you on yourself. We all humans are different and we all have different traits in us. Never try to fake traits in your life. Somewhere you'll face problem and you might not have solutions to solve them.

All you have is one life. Don't regret if you fail to be yourself. Our life is not meant to be ruled by others. Don't live according to the society rules. We have our life to be shaped according to the truths and positive attributes. Be yourself is equivalent to the confidence level and positivity level.

"It's just better to be yourself than to try to be some version of what you think the other person wants."- Matt Damon

Thank you

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