I'm going to get this out of the way immediately. I am not perfect. I don't have all the answers your looking for. In fact, I'm probably just as screwed up as you are.

But the truth is at this point in my life I feel pretty freaking useless. Half the time I feel like no one, not even my best friends want me around. I feel invisible. I feel like the world is better off without me in it. I feel like sexuality and gender identity are too confusing for life.

I've been a huge pain in the butt for the people I care about lately. I'm always angry or sad or...whatever.

The point is...I have a lot of issues. And I'm willing to bet that if you decided to read this thing, you do too. You want some magical solution to make it go away. You want everything to suddenly stop hurting and/or being confusing and hard....But let's be honest. You're not going to find a magical solution here.

The best I can give you is my thoughts and opinions, lame advice that may or may not help. I can try my best to listen to your issues and help you make a game plan.

I've always been told I was a good listener...

And I've always had some kind of hero complex...

So, maybe by helping you I can help myself.