sooo my mom is constantly making mean and derogatory comments about trans/ LGBTQ+ comments... and she doesn't know how much it hurts me because i always laugh along.. i'm really scared to come out to her.. even though i've ALWAYS dressed and acted like a boy. Ever since i was like 5, i've dressed like a boy, and she's never had a problem with it until i turned 12, and came out to her as Bi.... and i want to start testosterones... welp, looks like i'll either have to wait 'till i'm 18, or I have to come out to her... but i don't want to come out because i'm afraid she will literally kick me out of the family :(