Especially we girls are always too fast attracted to judging other people. It is most of the times about how another sister was dressed unIslamically or another rumour about who kissed with Mahmud. Especially girls in the puberty would talk very easily about someone else. How.. How can you say something bad about a person, while knowing that THAT person maybe means so much to Allah? How can you talk about someone else, when Allah maybe LOVES that person? How can you judge someone, when you are not flawless yourself? Only Allah has the right to judge people, cause only Allah is flawless. Instead of judging and talking bad about that person, just pray for him or her. Maybe that person will be closer to Allah just because of your dua. Isn’t that great? Maybe just because that person does bad things, the bad things will be an experience and that person will change and believe in Allah? We never know what people will be like in the future. I know this guy who was actually not a really good guy. Now that guy is 7/24 in the masjid. Why pointing out the tightness of your sisters’ clothes? There are ALWAYS worse people. I mean, I wear sometimes jeans too. Just because its comfortable. If I wear it, that doesn’t give me the right to actually point with my finger to another sister? EVEN if I didn’t wear it I wouldn’t have the right. Who am I? I have not the right to judge people. Hell, even our mums and dads can’t judge us. The only thing they can do is teach us how to act about it. How to just pray for people instead of judging and talking behind the back. If I see a sister wearing not well, I don’t say that in public. I will talk to the sister in privately and tell why it isn’t right. I would tell it with love, I will let her see that I care that she doesn’t do haraam. I will not smash her flaws in her face to make me look any better. Cause I am not. You are not. You don’t have the right to judge other people. Once my cousin told me this 'when you point to another person with your finger, you will see that your three free fingers would be pointed back at you too'. What does that mean? That means that when you actually judge someone, you will be pointed too. You have to smile, to be kind always to earn kindness and smiles back. If you act bitchy and point peoples flaws out, no one would take you seriously. No one would trust you and tell their stories. When my friends are judging people and I tell them to quit they always get mad at me, but I do what a muslim should do. SO if people are judging in front of you, tell them to quit it and if they don’t, I suggest you should take distance:)