You chose to walk up to them and tap their shoulder.

The person squeaks in surprise and turns around quickly you see they are actually a girl

(This is her except she is frowning and crying)

Her cheeks are tear stained while she looked up at you slightly scared and freaking out for some reason while trying to wipe her tears

Do you

Try to calm her down and say "Hey what's wrong why are you crying?"

Or do you grab her shoulders and shake her and say "Calm down and stop being a crybaby!"

CHOOSE WISELY OR YOU MAY REGRET IT