To anyone who reads this: You are beautiful and/or handsome and smart. You are as gentle as a stream, but as strong as the rapids. Be the beautiful, amazing person you want to be, not the one society tells you to be. Guys can be soft and not be gay or girly. Girls can be strong willed, tough, girly, or all three without being labeled as a feminist, a tomboy, or a shallow bitch. Don't conform to society's standards, raise them.