So basically as the title says, when u cant say no, u r mistaken for flirting

Im nice to ppl, strangers included

Sometimes ppl think im too nice? Idk but theres a difference between manners and flirting

As in JUST CUZ I GAVE U MY NOTEBOOK TO FILL WHAT U MISSED DOESNT MEAN I ASKED FOR UR NUMBER

Ugh its a long story

Often, i accept things, i offer lots of help to both women and men so if i see someone struggling with sthg i help no matter the gender?

Equality u may say or being shameless u may also call it but as long as im happy then idc honestly

Also i used to struggle saying NO, it was a big word for me that i never said before and even tho i grew up now and got over it

Sometimes, just sometimes i really cant say no so i just let it be and guess what apparently thats flirting

A promo guy stops me in the streets to tell me about their really amazing offers and discounts that i obv dont wanna listen to but i cant just say no so i go like

Haha yea i will bye :)

The awkwardness

Just cuz i listened to ur new perfume collection and how u think it would suit me cuz im as pretty doesnt mean im flirting back

Just cuz i was the best student and the friendly joker in class doesnt mean my male tr can befriend me

Just cuz i was playing with a little kid i found at a mall doesnt mean im flirting with the dad so KEEP AWAY U OLD FREAK ITS ILLEGAL

BOI YEET

So to all the dudes that:

-Asked for help they didnt need

-Read me their looong story they wrote in English class to 'share'

-Were too persistent on giving me candy(mid class)

-Asked for my social media (mid class as well, so embarrassing i had to say i dont rmmbr it)

-Gifted me a bday party i didnt ask for

-Told me about their fam fights and problems cuz they 'need guidance' (ik they didnt)

-Tried using sympathy to get to me cuz they knew i would pity them

-Spammed me (on school mail yall)

-Talked about me behind my back

-Stalked me

-Bestfriending me out of the blue when DUDE IDK U

Its not fun and i dont like u, its pathetic and scary sometimes

And i wasnt flirting back, i just couldnt say no so pls dont be surprised i am currently ignoring u and being suddenly 'rude'

Im not fake or just messing around, i shouldve done that since the beginning and i realised it recently so yea im building walls

I hope me suddenly becoming 'cold' will make u realise that just cuz someone is nice doesnt mean they like u

Its not my fault u never met a nice person so that u throw everything at someone who gave u the tiniest bit of attention

So pls everyone, if u find someone struggling to reject or say no, dont push them, don't ask for many things, dont be persistent

And if they accept and be nice dont misunderstand that as some sort of reciprocated feelings

Not every nice person likes u that way, if someone likes u they'll let u kno so pls dont take someone for granted or spread words about them