Y'know, I have an analogy for rape now.
Remember Medusa? Some stories say Poseidon raped her. Which is actually totally believable, sorry Poseidon. But as a punishment, Athena turned her into a monster no one could look at. Medusa's life was ruined.
If you rape someone, you do to them what Athena did to Medusa. Basically no one thinks what Athena did was okay, so why do you think rape is okay?