Heteronormative: denoting or relating to a world view that promotes heterosexuality as the normal or preferred sexual orientation.

"So do you consider it more a gay relationship or more a lesbian relationship?" Pamela asked Greg and Alice.

"What?"

"Are you more like men or women?"

"Um we're straight it's a man and a woman. That's like if we asked you 'who's the man in your relationship and who's the woman?' I would be asking one of you to misgender yourself and the other to say you're  dating a boy when you aren't attracted to boys. My relationship is just as normal as yours, please don't try to make it gay."