pain is subjective.

you cant get pissy bc you may have experienced  [tragic backstory] and SOMEONE HAS THE NERVE TO BE SAD NEAR YOU

guess what? your life doesnt amount to jack crap to their life experiences. just bc you went through something and didnt angst, doesnt mean theyre weak or whiny bc they did.

we're all vastly different people with vastly different things shaping our personalities. you really cant judge someone you don't know like that. you have no idea what theyve went through right up to the point you got mad at them for being upset.

some people are sensitive. some people cry easily, some are easily hurt. theres nothing wrong with that.

some people are hardy. theyve cried maybe 5 times in their entire life. they let stress just roll off them. nothing wrong with that either.

your emotions and feelings are valid no matter what. dont let someone shame you bc you """havent experienced what they have"""". THOSE ARE YOUR FEELINGS, NOT THEIRS.