When we find our identities, we often wish to correct others and show who we are. Part of this process may telling your friends. For this chapter in going to focus on coming out as part of the LGBT+ community, but this can be loosely applied to talking to friends about other identity struggles and possible issues.

When you want to start coming out, start with somebody you trust that won't talk about you behind your back. Choose somebody who you're mostly sure will still accept and love you.

It's important that you are feeling comfortable telling this person or these people. If it's not safe, waiting a little longer or talking to someone else first may be a better option because it's important to take care of yourself.

If you're worried about it, take a friend who already knows with you or have someone you know will help you to go to after. It can be scary, especially with the first people you tell. Take your time to prepare yourself and don't let others pressure you to tell if you're not quite ready.

Coming out isn't necessary for everyone. Talk when or if you're ready and use your best judgment to decide what to do.

You don't have to do it in person! You can write a letter, send a text, do a phone call, or come up with your own creative way to come out. Ask others and look online if you're looking for ideas!

Best of luck!