{I'm no longer taking advice requests}

[1] A couple of years ago I had a surgery  ago extremely wrong resulting in the artery in my throat rupturing. The surgeons said it looked a horror movie and they were surprised i didn't die. Since then I have had extreme anxiety and panic attacks very often. I also have a fear of surgery and anaesthetics because I'm scared I'm never going to wake up again.
Tomorrow I'm having an surgery on my gums and I'm TERRIFIED. I'm scared I'm going to have a panic attack in front of the surgeons and embarrass myself. Does anyone know how to deal with anxiety.

Anon

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[2] okay so my twin sister ratted me out for having a thing my mom didn't approve of. I know it's not the love troubles or even remotely interesting to people, but I feel betrayed. And it breaks my heart that if she gets in trouble she'll run her mouth and use me as her method of lessening the blow. What Should i do? (She's been angry at ME ever since. No idea why!!)

Anon

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[3] Today was my friends birthday. I have her a present, I s being so nice, and everything. While I was waiting on sister I asked her “are you going to have a party?”

She answered with, “I've already haaaaaa- NOPE!!” I asked another girl in our class and said yes. My friend only told her class. And one of my friends who is in my class. She just threw my away like I was trash came back as if we were beasties and nothing happened. Same ppl who had the sleepover without me. SHE DID THIS WITH HER AND NOT ME!!! I'm her best friend. we've been friends ever since we were three!!! She told the other girl that she was a butthole. I went up to her and said sarcastically “yeah, agrees the butthole”

She hurt my feelings. What should I do?

Anon.

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[4]  me and my crush have a pretty relationship going on (not MU or best friends tho) he always talks at me and shows his incredible Talent or tells me his whole family history.

Even Borrowed me his book from 1988; he's one year older than me.

But I feel like he does not notice me, not like the old days where he hits my head lightly for fun. (I know weird) my best friend gets all the notice and she's the school's favourite. and I'm getting stressed out. I had a crush on him over a year now but I'm confused if he likes my best friend or me. Not assuming that he likes or liked me.

Really though one time I heard him say..
“(my best friend), are you going home?”

It's doesn't mean much but it has a huge impact. I'm overreacting.

This problem has a huge impact on my school performance and I'm worried.

Should I just ignore it and move on with life or be worried by his actions? I have a problem or him?

Thank you. Just needed to let it out even though it's just a normal problem.

Anon.

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If anyone has anything they're dealing with send me a message through pm and I'll post anon💖💖