• Probably seeing him at your brother's camp for the first time

• Asking him a lot of war questions when you started to notice him being around you more often

• Finding him asking to walk with you around camp as it's not safe for a lady to be alone

• Seeing him amused when the two of you would talk about things that don't consist of war

• Dinning with him upon his request

• Your mother warning you to stay away from him, telling you that he's not a good man

• Being tucked safely away during the Red Wedding unknown of what was happening

• Being asked for your hand even after the fact that he just killed your family