Some time ago a new follower messaged my Inbox first - so I was Happy about that because 'I didn't have to start a conversation this time' & I like when they message me first as well :)

- but if you Message someone first it usually means that 'You want to talk', Right? 😤

... - Lol, seem that Not in THIS Case!  ^_~

Because when I answered her first message & I was trying to keep the conversation going & I was kind to her - she was answering with short messages, one or two words in a message - not even a full sentence - so I had an impression that 'she didn't want to talk'. 

🔷 I can get Very talkative if the other person shows that he or she Also Wants to Talk ( - & I happened to talk with new followers for 2 or 3 Hours in Our First Conversation when we had time, the conversation was going well & both sides were equally willing to talk :) )

- but in this case The Person I have in mind now was showing that 'she is not interested in this conversation' for some reason - so After a few message exchange when I realised that I thought 'Maybe she doesn't find what I'm saying interesting enough to put some effort in keeping this conversation going'? ( which might have happened of course ) - so I asked Her to choose the topic of the conversation to 'make it better for her'. 

*I let her choose Anything She's Interested in ( cause Everyone has some topic they Like to Talk About, I think ) - but when I asked her 'Ok, so what would you like to talk about? :) ' - she answered 'Idk'! 😆

- so I was like 'So What Did She Message Me For'? XD

LOL ! ( 😂😂😂 )