Okay so this is a bit controversial.
But it needs to be said.

There is a tik toc-er that is saying
"You're a terf if you don't find me attractive" or " you are a transphobe if you don't date me"

That is completely un-true.

If you do not want to date someone because it's your preference to date cis women. That's okay.

You're not saying that trans guys/girls are ugly. No.

Blair white
London

Two very attractive trans women.

Sam Collins
Kalvin garrah
Storm Ryan

Three attractive trans men.

At the end of the day if you do not find someone attractive, to you. You're not gonna date them.

Some men/women don't care about if their partner is trans. So don't go around thinking people are transphobic over a preference.

What does make it transphobic if you say that they are not a woman/man because of them being trans. Its absolutely stupid to say that.
Plus no trans person wants to date a weirdo obsessed with trans people