You are born with a string around your pointer finger on either hand, that's one connection you have to your soulmate . The other way your connected to them is by your arm; if you write on it your soulmate would get it soon after and can choose to write back or ignore it. Not having a mate could mean that you have a illness; called 'Comentstantaly'
(Koy-Ment-stant-taly-) or more known as 'CMY' (see-Em-Why).

Comentstantaly(CMY)
Definition;
Not having a string and/or not having a soulmate (so-owl-may-t).
Diagnosis;
No diagnosis is known today, but doctors are looking to find one.
Helplines;
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