People say you shouldn't be shallow, look deeper,

You can't tell by just a glance if someone's a keeper,

But someone's first glance,

Can be the difference between you being dismissed or given a chance.

If you look scruffy, they'll think you've got no pride,

If you're late they'll assume you're taking them for a ride,

If you're obnoxious and mouthy, from you their secrets they'll hide,

If you're arrogant and over opinionated with you they will not confide,

If you're indecisive, aggressive, they'll think you're not on their side.

First impressions help make long term judgment, pull people in,

Help form people's gut feeling, if you're worth it or trash for the bin.

If you catch someone's eye,

Your chances of a relationship, friendship or partnership are high,

First encounters decide everything, they count,

And the effect they have is paramount.