When you read this post saying 'your favorite characters shows who you are' and you start to worry about growing up to be a psychopath killer who denies herself/himself love and that you're going to end up in a mental hospital.

'Cause seriously:

Sam Carter
Castiel
Dean Winchester
Barney Stinson
Leroy Jethro Gibbs
Ziva David

I could go on but I think you get it.