"Hello and welcome, my loves. Wondering why we are here? We are here to give you our friendly piece of advice on marriages of course. Now always remember, when you get married, the groom would be doing a favour on you. He will be fulfilling your family's last and biggest of dreams, and he will be helping you achieve the sole purpose of your life of course; MARRIAGE. Now, doing a few things to pay off this huge debt wouldn't be so bad, would it? In return of this HUGE favour, the groom's family might as well ask you for a few lakhs or crores, and maybe a luxury car in addition to that. Reckon that is not a big deal. Who cares, after all, how you manage to arrange all that money? That is your lookout, obviously, how you'll be paying the debt. Now remember, now that you are getting married, you will be leaving your home of course. Your original family (yes, the one where you were born and brought up, and the one that sacrificed so much for your better future) will not be your priority anymore. In fact, they shouldn't even be in your priority list anymore. Now that you have finally become big enough to be able to look after your family, you are going to look after your new family that consists of a bunch of strangers who never did anything for you. Make them and your husband your priority. What? What did you ask? What about you being your priority? THAT is a very funny question indeed. In case you are forgetting, love, you are a woman. Women don't make themselves their priority. Good women always keep their husband and in-laws first, no matter even if they have to forget about their existence for that. Oh and, because all this wasn't enough to pay off the huge favour, here's a bit more. You will have to give up your identity and carry around your husband's surname. We mean, now that your priority is your husband, we find this thing a bit obvious to even mention, but you never know about this new generation, do you? Also, remember, now you will be giving up all your freedom, dreams, and "pointless" ambitions. Your ultimate goal would be pleasing your in-laws, and your husband (oh, friendly advice, the way to man's heart is through his stomach, aka you should be a good cook. And if you are not one, then what has your mother even taught you? You both seem to be good for nothing!). Make sure he goes to bed contented. Now that you are his wife, he obviously has the ticket of life-long you-know-what— ARRE S-E-X!— (No consents required). Marital rape? What's that? Never heard of it! Oh, and he might happen to hit you sometimes, but you've got to understand. He goes out, works hard to earn money. He needs someone to remove his frustration on, and what could be better than you? So don't you make a fuss about it. He does so much for you, compromise a bit, bear a bit, it's no big deal. Maintain this relationship. Because that's what good women do: THEY STAY SILENT. Love him, care for him . . . WHAT NOW? What did you say? What about him loving and caring for you? Are you out of your mind? He is a MAN. Men are not supposed to have emotions as silly as loving and caring. Men are not supposed to be sensitive! He is trying to fit himself in the box he was born with, it is your duty to make sure you fit in yours. Oh, we almost forgot about the biggest goal of your life! Any guesses? Any? No? MAKING BABIES OF COURSE! Who cares if you want a baby or not? Who cares if you are ready for one or not? Who cares that it will be your body which will have to go through nine months of pain, hormonal changes, nausea, head ache, swellings, vomiting and stuff? What did you say? What about adding to the population in this already over-populated world? Ha! That is such a lame excuse for not wanting to raise a child. Hold on, did you just ask me what about adopting the kids in need? Love, you only help the needy when you are in need. Adoption is only an option when one of you is infertile. Oh and speaking of infertility, if it's you who turns out to be infertile, be prepared for a life long series of taunts. For who cares that you must already be depressed on learning that you are infertile? Taunting an infertile woman is our dream come true! Also, before you and your husband take a test and learn which one of you is infertile, remember that we will never use any sort of scientific logic. We won't bother about the fact that infertility doesn't see somebody's gender. We, of course, will target you first. And by chance, if it is your husband that turns out to be infertile, be a bit understanding and care for him. And don't ask us why people can't be just as caring for an infertile woman as they can be for an infertile man. Because how many times do we tell you? The man has done a favour on you by getting married to you. What have you done for him in return? Nothing, of course! Thank you for listening to this friendly piece of advice." ~ With l̶o̶v̶e̶ ̶a̶n̶d̶ ̶b̶e̶s̶t̶ ̶w̶i̶s̶h̶e̶s̶  taunts and uninvited opinions, Society.

READ THAT? THAT WAS BASICALLY ALL THE TAUNTS OUR WOMEN HEAR, COMPILED IN ONE SPEECH. YES, THAT IS THE LIFE OF A LOT OF OUR WOMEN, ESPECIALLY OUR MOTHERS, GRANDMOTHERS, AND OTHER WOMEN OF THEIR AGE. 

AND IF AFTER THAT YOU STILL HAVEN'T FOUND OUT THE ANSWER TO WHY MARRIAGES ARE A PROBLEM IN THIS WORLD, LET ME HELP YOU OUT A BIT. THE ANSWER IS: SOCIETY.