that was so selfish on your part you took no consideration for my feelings. you just knew what you wanted and did not even try to see how i felt about it. did i ever give any hints indicating that i wanted to get back together? we havent even spoken or texted, so why would you think that even if it was so to say that the shit that was going on in my life settled down, makes you think i would get back together with you. and your not about to come at me and say that it was selfish of me to break up with you because i did take into consideration your feelings. i weighed out my options. i couldve stayed with a person i didnt want to be with, act like i did, and break up a long time after, or break up and end it quick before things got too serious. if a month hurt you, then you really dont know what its like to be in a relationship. and i know im one to speak, but i know people who have been in relationships lasting for years and have pretended to want to be with that person for all those years, just because they thought it was too late to break it off. would you have rather i stayed and pretended and really wasted your time? no because you really said you wish i didnt waste your time but no i didnt waste your time because in the beginning it was genuine, so it was not for nothing, and when you say i wasted your time that makes it seem as if i never cared from the start, as if i knew that it would end in the manner that it did, as if those were my intentions. so no, i was not selfish when i broke up with you. i was doing what i felt was right because i knew that i couldnt be in a relationship that i didnt want to be in, which would really end up hurting you if i did do so. why did you have to go and say that. now we barely have a chance of even being friends without it being extra awkward because you couldnt control your emotions even after i told you about all my issues. fuck you.