Dear boo,

I hope I'm doing this the right way. You say that things are anonymous so I feel comfortable that only you can keep who I am.

This is what I need advice on ---

I've been dating my boyfriend for six months. I'm not a virgin but I've only been with one guy and nothing sense. that was two years ago. For me to give someone that part of me they have to be special and mean a lot.

My boyfriend - I will call him Ethan - he wanted to have sex. He told me that if I didn't give in to him then he would break up with me. I told him no but he made me do it. Just because he wanted to have sex. I did have an orgasm so he told me that I wanted him even though I told him no because I had an orgasm.

I think of it as rape.

What do you think?  I like him because he's cool but not enough for sex. Since we did it last week does that mean I have to every time?

Thanks for taking my question,

Tracy*

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Dear Tracy,
Sweetheart, it doesn't matter if you've had sex with him a million times...When you say NO that means NO! You ask me if I consider this rape?

Yes!

Just because he made you have an orgasm doesn't change things. Our bodies are meant to have sex, so an orgasm naturally happens when we reach our peak.

This is a deep subject. Love isn't forced baby girl. Love is a natural thing. Sex doesn't equal love. Sex is amazing when you love your partner so big props to saving that gift (sex not virginity)  to give to someone special.

Ethan* is not someone special. He took power over you and forced you into having sex when you said NO!!!

🚫 MEANS NO!!! 🚫

Personally, I would cut ties with him. Pressing charges and getting a restraining order is up to you. You didn't say if you're over 18, but this is something to consider.

Break things off with him. You deserve better than some boy (definitely not a man)  who will rape you when he wants sex. There is plenty of free kitty out here for him to get his rocks off.

If you chose to stay with him then talk to him. Communication is key in a relationship, along with trust.

Keep in mind, if he's willing to rape you... what else is he capable of?

Be safe darling. Only you can decide what is best for you. By no means am I telling you what to do, I'm only telling you what I will personally do. Well other than cut his balls off with a quickness. 😡😡😡

RAPE IS NOT OKAY!!!! 

If you would like to let us know what happens always pm me. I'm here for anything. You got this Tracy* you can do this!

♥Love Always, ♥
Boo