Dear Boo,
I'm just curious if you can try to give advice about liking someone and wanting to tell them, but being too scared.

There's this boy I really like but I'm afraid to tell him. I don't want to bring him into my family issues right now. I want the best for him. I want to tell him, I just don't know how.

Thank you,
🌸xoxo🌸

Brylee*

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Dear Brylee*,

In this situation, we will call your crush...  Blake*. I like the name Blake lol, blame it on "I Sold Myself To The Devil For Vinyls... Pitiful I Know". ( best story ever)  😂😂😂

What exactly makes you afraid to tell Blake*? You and him are friends, he tells you that you're beautiful and y'all talk to each other. Blake opens up to you about personal issues so that shows you he is comfortable with you. Not many boys will do this, at all. They are quite stubborn actually, and nope it doesn't change it continues until manhood. 😂

I understand that you have low self-esteem when it comes to what others, especially Blake* think of you. I wish you can see what everyone sees in you. Brylee*, you are a STRONG,  BEAUTIFUL, FIERCE young lady. You can achieve anything your heart desires.

I think Blake* has feelings for you as well. Of course, you're nervous to tell him because at that moment everything will change. But it can change for the better. You won't know unless you try.

If you aren't ready to tell him face to face, try writing him a sweet letter telling him everything you like about him. We ladies forget that boys also have low self-esteem, so maybe he thinks that he's not good enough for you. We never know what someone else is thinking. At this very moment, he may be lying in bed thinking about the big secret crush he has on a beautiful young lady by the name of Brylee*!

As for your family, this part saddens me. Your family is hard on you. I hate that. They put you through so much when you deserve the world. Just because you and Blake* begin to date, and be boyfriend and girlfriend doesn't mean he has to meet tour family right away.

Have Blake* meet your family when you both are ready. That is actually a huge step in a relationship. I'm not telling you to lie to your parents, I just wouldn't bring him over to meet them the day y'all begin to date. If you understand what I'm saying. Basically, don't rush it. Let it happen naturally. Sometimes if you rush things, especially with meeting families, it can scare your crush away.

Take things at your own pace. Don't let Blake* or anyone pressure you into changing or doing anything you're not comfortable with.

Go on actual dates where y'all can talk. Trust and communication are very important in a relationship. It's also important to begin a relationship with. So be upfront with him. Be honest.

Tell Blake* how much you like him, how the thought of y'all dating makes your heart beat slower and faster at the same time. Let him know what things you like about him the most. Because in doing so you may like something that he thinks is a downfall of his.

I will be watching to see how this turns out. Wishing you the best of luck sweet, beautiful girl.
Hugs and kisses!

💋Love Always,
Boo💋

*Names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved*