Dinner was super delicious. After reaching residency, Dallas shared everything with Curvy, including everything about Croquetas, which were super yummy. They both had a spicy session that night; Dallas was super happy with that pleasure experience, and Curvy was satisfied by Dallas. They both had sweaty nights before sleeping. But Dallas wanted to talk about a different kind of relationship that he came to know that night at dinner. As a context of the talk, he told Curvy about the couple who were at that party; they were straight BF with bi GF. Dallas was so confused about the concept because he never had that kind of feeling earlier. But he knew that Curvy was far more mature and smarter than him regarding that kind of stuff. Earlier too, she had advised him, and they both had many deep conversations regarding various kinds of relationships. Dos and don'ts were the best way to keep learning in a relationship; they both always tried to learn from other's mistakes. They were so open to talking about any topic, especially when it came to keeping their relationship alive and lasting.

But as usual, Dallas was confused. He was confused regarding how a straight partner can live happily with his or her bi partner, how they can keep a long-lasting relationship in a loyal way without being cheaters. What should a mixed couple do to keep their relationship alive? Curvy, with her romantic kisses, tried to make Dallas calm, but as usual, Dallas believed in data—after all, he was an analyst—so Curvy knew that Dallas would be more likely to provide relief with examples and points than anything else. Hence, Curvy points out some points to be followed for having a long-lasting relationship when one of the partners is bi or other than straight. She beautifully explained as follows: What should a couple do and don't' do?

1.It should be monogamous.
If any one of the partners of a straight couple discovers him or her as a bisexual, he or she should keep in mind that if they want their old relationship or marriage to work, they should prefer a monogamous relationship.

Reason: If by chance they wish to have a physical experience with someone of the same gender outside of their relationship, then it is because of their non-monogamy taste and not because they are bisexual. That will lead to cheating because when mono changes to poly, whether they are straight or bi, it will result in cheating. And that is why many mixed relationships failed miserably.

2.Communication
It is the base of any relationship, but in the case of a mixed marriage, it is more important for having a long-lasting relationship or marriage.

Reason: When a bisexual partner discovers himself/herself about their taste and attraction, they get scared; what if they lose their old relationship or marriage? They try to hide it and start to feel guilty for not providing full-fledged love to their partner. But that creates hesitation between the partners. So, it is always great to talk about everything with your partner. Let her or him talk about his or her feelings, listen to them without making any specific notes, and let them decide how far they can bend for each other to maintain the relationship. If there is a lack of communication, they sure will fail.

3. Before making any decisions, keep children in mind.
As mixed partners, they must always put their children first because opening to them can easily harm their children's psychology.

Reason: Children are very young enough to understand every perspective of their parents regarding their sexual preference or taste for attraction. They could easily get diverted from the main concept of life and consider it something different. They may handle it differently due to their immature psychological level. Who knows, they may get influenced by the information they are receiving from parents. Because, as we know, home is the first school for any child, where they learn from their parents. So it's better if we give our children a perfect environment to develop their psychological health.

4. Exploration within the partner :
Try to mold your fantasies around your partner.

Reason: If either partner has a fantasy outside of the relationship, it is not because they are straight or bi, but because it is a non-mono thing. Try to include your partner in your fantasy world as much as possible. Once you start to see your partner fulfilling your fantasy, you will become more loyal to him or her. Because your brain won't see any need to go outside of your relationship to fulfill it. Sometime you may wish to have someone different than your partner; it is fine to dream about it, but always try to control the expectation forever, else it falls under cheating.

5. Don't poke (remind) your Bi/Straight partner repeatedly.
Don't say everyday "you are bi, so you are like this or that"

Reason: If you repeatedly discuss mixing sexualities with your partner, his or her mind will become preoccupied with the subject. Which may lead to insecurity. May be he/she will think, What if I go for that this week? or Does he/she love me? Because all the time he/she is talking about new horizons, is he/she hinting that they want to go beyond the limit? Or they want to hook some new fish around? It will be so confusing for both partners. So it is always better if both talk about the same topic once in a while naturally, and during everyday talks, act normally as the couple intended. Treat your partner as a normal human being; there is no need to separate them into different categories by poking each day.

6. Try to offer your partner the best.
Try giving your partner everything he or she needs sexually.

Reason: If your partner is bisexual, then try to offer him/her whatever they are looking for in their sexuality. If you are enough for him/her, why will he/she look anywhere else? why will he/she go beyond relationship? If you offer him/her the best experiences, then they will be with you forever, no matter if they are straight or bi; if they are mono, they will be with you; if they are not, then no one can stop them. They will find an excuse to leave the relationship.

7. Enjoy and explore porn together.
You and your partner should watch and enjoy it together.

Reason: If you or your partner is bisexual, then they will love to explore the same gender in a lusty way. If your girlfriend/wife is bisexual, she may find it difficult to approach girls. Because in general, girls approach slowly. But if it is your husband who is bi, then for him, approaching guys will be easily compared to approaching girls for a girlfriend or wife. So make your partner so comfy that they can enjoy porn or any lust world with you together. Don't go alone. Because if you go alone and enjoy it, then your brain somehow will tell you that you are alone enough for your satisfaction. And slowly, that alone will increase your pleasure, which ultimately will confuse your brain about your relationship with your partner. So, this is the basic rule: avoid watching Bi Lust World alone. If you watch with your partner, then your brain will consider them as one of the parts of your Bi Lust World. Hence, if you as a bisexual want to keep your relationship long lasting with your straight partner, then include them in your lust porn world, don't go alone.

"So these are the basics that can be included as ground rules for maintaining a bisexual and straight relationship. If anyone follows those, it will help them to maintain strong relationships with partners. But if they fail to maintain the grounds, that will for sure lead them to breakup. Relationships are so delicate to handle; they need care and love to grow. Lack of trust and loyalty are also major problems nowadays, so if you want to have a long-lasting relationship, be with them. Be loyal and trustworthy, because nowadays, having a relationship is so easy, but maintaining it is hard as hell. So, if you want to be with your bisexual or straight partner, follow the basics. Period." Curvy said all those with her emotions as if she were feeling them so close. Dallas was listening to those points very carefully because he always wanted to explore new information and try to learn from other's mistakes. After all, he loves Curvy more than anyone, so anything that makes her happy is important to him. He was so happy after talking with Curvy; those opinions of Curvy were so important to him for the future planning. Ultimately, he was smiling with Curvy because he knew happiness is a journey how we reach 'In Search Of LIFE-UNDERCOVER'.

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How was Dallas? Well, stay connected with the upcoming chapters.

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