Words- 1041
Genre- sad, reality

P.s i m not against any culture or tradition mentioned here..i m just expressing my p.o.v)

Girls will relate to this...❤🙂

This story is not as the ones i write.... "love story" types...

Its about awareness...
Its about our culture that we respect a lot and also sometimes feel unequal of...

I was doing my work.....
"My work" *smirk* that is "doing household work*

It had been a month since i shifted here......

I have a "supporting" yes🙂
"Supporting inlaws"

They mind everytime i present my view anywhere...
Afterall " who am i to speak in b/w their family"
If " i recommend something to my husband....and he presents it to its inlaws...
Then its called "joru ka gulaam"
If my husband agrees my point of view then... "He has become my slave"
I mean wow!!!👏🏻👏🏻

There are no less people to taunt but least to appreciate...
That is the harsh reality ....
Cauz appreciating someone kills our ego and taunting satisfies our ego....

Not all people are the same...
But only a few people...
Only a few people accept a girl as a member of their family....

Sometimes i think...
"Isse hum apni beti jesa rakhenge"
Bhai! Nhi rehna meko tumhari ladki ban kr!!! Apne pati ki behen banne ka shauk nhi hai yrr!thnq!!
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

I left my job a week ago....
I feel like a maid...
I mean these lines...
" Saas bolegi maa ne kuch sikhaya nhi...kaam seekh le ghr ka"
I m not going to ur house to do ur household work! And maa ne nhi sikhaya matlab! Meri maa ne sikhaya hai apne liye stand lena...
Jo kaam aap krna chahte ho vo krna naa ki haath me chai lekr pure ghr me sasu maa ka naam japte huye ghumna....

And ya!
The most irritating one...
"Mere maa - baap ka ghr paraya ghr...mera saural mere pati ka ghr....yeh batao mera ghr hai kaunsa ??"

My point is ki in india logo ne kaam baat rkha hai...
Chai bana,kaam krna ladkiyan krengi or baaki saare kaam jese bahar ke kaam ladke...

Ladkiyon ko toka jayegi or ladko ko pucha bhi nhi jayega ki vo kaha ,kyu or kab ja rhe hai
Kehte sab hai ki we treat everyone equally...pr log chah kr bhi esa nhi kr paate...

Now lets come to culture...
Indian culture is very famous and loved by many foreign and indian people...

My most fav. - karvachauth!

( so yep....i feel a lot worried many times...cauz my mum is very like she can't lie down ideally she always finds some work...
Also she is having diabetes ..
Eating nothing the whole day...is kind of risky...but she manages...
My father many times asked her to not it when she is ill..but u knw..
Vo believe har aurat ka...)

Hmm..so ya..... shaadi ke vakt ek vachan lete hai log...
" 7 janam ek dusre ka saath nibhane ka"
Par karvachauth toh sirf Patiyon ki umar badhane ke liye hota hai..
Biwiyon ki umar toh magic se hi badh jaati hai na...
I mean....
Why do u have to prove ur love..by staying hungry the whole day...not only hungry but also thirsty.....

On one hand we are worshiping girls on" kanjak" nd on diwali we do laxmi pooja.... and
On the other hand we starve them to get the proof frm them...that if they can do anything for thier beloved or not....

I felt two arms encircling around my waist....
Nd whispering sweet nothing in my ears....

Neil- avu...why r u getting out all ur bhadaas on them...

Avni- neil.....cauz i feel bad...
About it...
Every time a women has to give sacrifices...she has to kill her wishes to fulfill her family's wishes...and what she gets in return "taunts"?

Neil- see... in this world...
There r thousands of people...
With thousands of thinking...
U can't change each ones thinking...
The main thing is the steretype population....
See.... "Agar tum kuch alag krna chahoge toh har koi tumbe galat kahega... par end me ek din vo bhi vahi cheez follow krenge"
So see...
As mujhe taunt sunne ko milte hai apni maa se ghr chodne ke liye...apni biwi ka kutta banne ke liye...nd what not...
But i m happy...cauz u r with me... that is what i want...
Kaunsa bhagwan ne khud utar kr bola hai agar karvachauth ka vrat rkhogi toh pati ki umar badh jayegi
" sbko ek na ek din marna hi hai..ab bhale hi vo jaldi ho ya late"
Or haan...
Agar esa hi hai...
Toh maine bhi rkha hai karvachauth ka vrat...
Agar tum meri umar badha rhi ho toh maine bhi 7 janam tumhare saath bitaane ka vachan diya hai...
Ab jaldi chlo bhukki lgi hai...
Chanda mama nikl gye...

She giggled...

Avni- aww...chalo chale...
And u knw what...
Sabko tumhare jesa pati nhi milta...
Afterall sab neil khanna nhi hote
Bohot Ladkiyan jinki shaadi kr kr zindagi kharaab ho jati hai...

Neil- stop now!! Meko bhook lgi hai jana.... patani bina kuch khaaye itna bolne ki energy kaha se aati hai tum me
Lekin har ladki avni ayesha jitni strong bhi nhi hoti...❤🙂

Neil- u knw...let me tell u a secret
Why we men say "Ladkiyon ko smjhna impossible hai"
Cauz.....
We never try to understand them❤🙂

She smiled...

Avni- aren't u hungry now?

Neil- well i am!

He took her to the terrace..
They did the pooja....
And fed each other lovingly...

Avni- what u have done for me...i can't describe it in words....
Taking stand against ur family and society is not an easy task..
And i m glad to knw...that i hold this much imp. In ur heart❤

Neil- no....even more than this!

They side hugged and looked at the bright and beautiful moon who smiled with more brightness...

" things are changing..... but not completely❤🙂"

So my thinking is...
" no tradition tells u to be partial.... traditions can be followed by anyone for anyone...not only husbands,not only wives!!!"

Love love..❤❤
(Vishwaas nhi ho rha hoga na yeh maine likhi hai)