So we all know that self harm, in any form, is a terrible experience to go through. And it is quite addictive if you feel like you deserve to be hurt in that way.

But in some fan fics I read, when I was like 10. They always glamorized self harm as something really cool and trendy.

And i over looked it at the time thinking I was so stupid and not understanding fully.

But now I see it was awful and i should have reported it. Or tried to tell the author that it is not safe to be advocating self harm.

Now I'm not saying you can't write a character that has self harm issues. All I'm asking is to write it out correctly. As the horrible problem it is.

Remember if you feel the need to self harm talk to someone about it. A loved one a ghost mom. Counselor.

Anybody that can handle talking about it. Because some people can't handle it, and if they can't and you feel like no one will listen. You can talk to me, I'm all ears