Hey guys, I'm back with another Crazy session with @lovelylalli writer of Second wife, Existence of life etc

Okay.. So
Hi lalli.. Welcome to Crazy talks.. And this is Anu

Hi anu..thank you for inviting me to Crazy Talks. this is Lalli

So., Lalli, Tell us a little bit about yourself..!

So, I am Lalli. I am from telangana, hyderabad. completed my post graduation, preparing for competative exams. hardcore sandhir Lover. generally I don't watch serials much.. but once., I am scrolling through channels.. I saw first promo of saddahaq...
I felt it something different from other shows.. so,i started watching it. before saddahaq, I didn't knew there is a writer inside me

Okay. So when is your birthday..?

8th august..

So any inspiration for your writings..?

yes.. many writers. from childhood I'm intrested in stories, but after watching saddhaq, I joined in fan groups. There I met so many amazing writers. They inspired me. I like many writers, no one in specific one though

Whose writings inspired you the most..? 

chetan bhagat, ravindar singh. I read mostly autobiography's of Gandhiji, Abdul Kalam, Sw. Vivekananda.
Coming to sandhir groups, mouli bhattacharya's writing inspired me.. her writing & vocabulory.

basically I'm very poor in english.. I used to read her stories by keeping a dictionary with me. Reading her stories helped me to improve my english a little

Wow.. Really you did that..

yes...I read many stories just to know different words and how to use them, and also to know the writing style of others...

Wow.. Now you really inspired me in writing.. You are really passionate.. To be frank your thoughts inspired me..

thank you. I still feel I'm an amateur writer among other talented writers. sometimes I read stories of all types like horror, humor, scientific , romantic, fanatcy to get more awarenes.

mostly to appreciate the writers creativeness.. the way they involved and created so many characters with uniqueness

Hmm yeah reading others works will give you a slight idea 

yes... but sometime if I don't like the plot I think, what will i do if I'm in their place. I have this habit of reading few parts then try to guess the next parts in my own imagination.

I have this special online friend, with whom I discuss my story plots. she is the best critique for me. mostly I don't update or start many stories due to lack of time but I will always get new ideas or plots. so I'll immediately tell her. she is like my personal diary for stories 

Wow.. One should have a friend like that..

what i regret is I got many plots, i process them in my brain.. but when it comes to type. i become lazy, after few days it becomes old. I will forgot it and new idea comes.. she always encourages me to write more. advices me too improve, she is also writer.. infact I say, she is best writer then me.

her stories are so much emotional. A little complex love stories. but they are beautiful. she is after me, to write in grammatical way witout spelling mistakes...

What was your debut work in writing..?

"Existence Of Life" story based on sandhir...after break up life of sandhir in serial

but before completing it.. I started other story "rebound" a short story then "my first date" "unwanted" its close to me.. its non sandhir

How will you receive if some one criticise ur works..?  

first complaint for my story is to improve grammer.. so I will do that before updating the story.. I'll sent the final copy to my friends, who made me learn to write a sentence in proper tense
there is another girl....who used to always talk about my grammer..her advices..truly helped me to improve

Who who..?? 

I have best critics on my side as friends so I dont feel bad when any of the reader critize me...
poulami hom another writer. she wrote "married Roomies" and her stories are best. she mostly writes non sandhir. 
still I have to improve. you see one of my friend writes her story 4 to 5 copies till it will be perfect with out any mistakes. its like less word, more intense story. 

I wanted to write like that. instead I write in a detailed manner. i have to use more intense words to express it and edit the story properly before posting. 

prithvy. she scolds me not to edit the story once it posted. she suggests me to edit it before posting if its needed but not after it was posted..

Hahhha. Actually what she said was ryt 

You see. when I imagine a story in my mind. it will be so perfect intense. when I put it on paper it loses that charm gradually. I need to have more grip on vocabulory, so that i can give justice to the story.

yes. she is right and I'm uncomfortable to write intense chapters. when it comes to romance. I have to over come that slight nevousness, when it comes to romance. A writer should be always be ready to write all types of situations which are useful for the story.

sometimes I'll get a new plot while reading some scene in others stories which inspire me to build my own story 

Did you ever felt writer's block..?

yes.... thats why i stopped writing "secondWife" for months...

Acha seriously..

yes. sometimes I'll write a part then I'll delete it if I'm not satisfied by that , I want to write more and different but i don't know, "what is that more"

Happens.. Its happens sometimes..

readers are demanding me for next update on that story. That is the only story which is popular among my other stories.

after sometime I got new story plots. but I am still stuck in this story.. so, I'm unable to start new one without completing it.. There are many pending stories so after that I changed the next part after months. I wrote the guy's version of story from starting.

till my problem was solved, I read that story from start and wrote the next parts in guy(hero's) version..so that readers won't wait for longtime 

surprisingly.. they supported me with my writer's block. even after months they waited for next chapter when I wrote the guy's part they are excited and give me huge response

Reader's will definitely wait if they liked the story 

infact at one time i wanted to stop the story with writer's block.. so,i requested readers whats they want in next chapters by giving few scenarios. their encouragement gave me boost to continue it

Okay.. 

Apart from writing what do you like to do..?

reading stories. all genres.based on my mood. sometimes romantic, thriller, spiritual. listening music.
sometimes watch movies. playing with kids. I love kids....

So what made you to get addicted to saddahaq

definitely story line. sanyukta's determination. sandhir challenges. vardhan's nature. all the competitions. its realistic. view of college life...

Okay imagine if you were given a chance to play a role in Saddahaq which character will u choose to play..?

I think I never fit any other character...except for priyali...

 Why so..? 

becoz.. I'm just like her. more hesitant around boys. i am from middle class family. untill my graduation I studied in girls school & college.

but when i shifted to new place, hyderabad(metro city) for my P. G that too co-ed..

Okay

I'm afraid as I never travelled long distances alone before. yet i changed more than two buses to reach my college every day for 3 years. but i learned so much. opened up know more about city culture. how to survive there. My fear to talk with boys was also gone. i made many good friends(boys also)
i enjoyed co-ed life. as much as in girls college. saw many types of students.

Okay

before that I'm always in my own world. i never observed people much. at the same time. i started reading stories. the way writer descibe a person just by observing them. Their personality,

It helped me to learn people a little before that I'm too naive or ignorant you can say. i didn't know how to differentiate between fake and real people but now thorugh my college life i exposed to a real life. all type of people, so the novels helped me in personal level too...

at the end i became a little like sanyukta, friendly to all people well the quality was there before too but this time i can analyze people a little better,

Thats good.. You really improved yourself a lot

Okay Imagine if you were given a chance to change or modify a scene in Sadda haq which scene it would be..? 

how sandhir fought after engagement instead of sit and talk. why they did that..?
why sanyukta lied to him her reasons. why randhir crashed in her engagement there is so much misunderstanding for their actions. later they realised on their own the feelings for each other is too strong, so they apolized.

but still they didn't discussed the reason for the fiasco...

Ooh so you wanted to modify that scene with their reasons 

sanyukta never told randhir "what she told to vardhan sir her reasons for leaving him" 

and randhir never told her how much he was hurt becoz of her, how he felt like she also left him like his mother. Even in her engaement randhir told her father "not to destroy her dreams." he fought for her dreams., yet no one acknowledged it..

He hit her father only when her father abused him not becoz he wanted to hit him intentionally 

Yeah. But you are very keen observer yaar 

 well..I'm wring a stroy on season 2 for that story i need to write all scenes "where sandhir went wrong....how it destroyed their relation"

 Okay.. Any song which made you to remember sandhir again 

"mi tenu samjawava ki..." in hindi. I watched movie version after one year. still when ever i hear that song  remember sandhir. 

In telugu., there were so many songs which remind me of sandhir. espcially one song  "osari preminchaka"  it remindes me of sandhir engagement trrack...

song is about how a girl sacrifices her love for family happiness and agrees to marry someone else but her lover questions her "even after sacrifice all you find is tears instead of happiness. is the sacrifice worth it..?"

Yeah i know that song yaar.. Even I'm from Andhra.. 

There few telugu vms too on Sandhir

yes.. I created two on them on telugu songs 

Wow you created 

I am plaaning to make vm on that song for sandhir but I'm not good at video making 

You can try atlst

yes...i can.       

Who is ur first celebrity crush..? 

one and only param.. after watching his iv's...

Other than Param..?? 

 actually.. i never had crush for anyone before as i told my interaction with other gender is very rare except for my bro and cousins.
so none.
Till my PG I never knew how guys will flirt with girls, how they think about girls, (thanks to my gang who treat me as one of the guys), gossip about girls, they even took help from me to talk with girls so you see untill my pg I didn't know about what exctly is love making, makingout (untill i read in sandhir stories...) i am like weird, forever wants to stay single girl. so crushes are very rare..

if you gave me two choices.,
1st one marrying a handsome, well settled, good natured guy 
2nd a world tour, i prefer second one

😂😂😂🤣🤣

lol thats what I'm. I respect marriage, love,romance
yet i can't visualise myself doing any of this... 

Which title of sandhir book attracted you the most..?

there are many..."kleptomaniac" by mouli, "hear beats" by dipta, "priceless by madhusmita, "promises are meant to be broken " by iffu and "picture perfect" by anuradha, "the sole soul" by gunseerat  

Which plot of Sandhir story in Shq attracted you the most..?

"randhir realised his feelings for sanyukta and that PG plot wali track, where he supported her wishes and they lived a like happy couple. She coming to his room just to spend time with him because she is busy whole day...

Which plot in Sandhir Fanfiction attracted you the most..?

There are many of mouli di's, dipta's, mahu's, muskan's, iffu's. but i love saffi di's story.. "when we must part"

A tale of forbidden love between the President's son and the rival party's daughter. What happens when she gets sent to spy? Will this love affair bloom into something more? Will this love prevail through everything?"

Who is the writer..?

saffi sanam. her story plots are amazing..i love all stories of her...

Okay

Any memorable incident related to Sadda haq.?

everything is memorable. when it comes to saddahaq. watching it. fangirling over someone for first time. joining saddahaq fans group, knowing so many saddhaq fans as friends, reading sandhir stories. i learned so much about real world through books... it happened all beacuse of saddhaq.... made many friends here but most memorable momenthappened recently

what!!!

During #BlackCoffee Live session with Parsh, param answered my question.. he took my name and he is exicited abut my question like finally someone asked him.. what he wanted to say 

What question did u ask..?? And what he answered..?? 

I asked about his experiance as chain smoker. he answered it. he took my name Lovely....Lalli.??? then Lovely Laali... 

He took ur name.. Thats so cool 

I asked him his experiance as a smoker and roll jointing..
He said his throat effected by smoking in harshi's birthday iv.
he answered.
"you are right, I hate smoking
roll jointing is easy
then harshi said, she know roll joiniting she did long ago, then param said he is an ex smoker...  

Okay

Which character in Sadda haq inspired you the most..?

vardhaan sir.. he is the best.. reading his students, he motivated them in both personal and professional level equally
   
i missed him so much.. if only he is there sandhir will be never separated. i am sure he should have scold them and locked him in a room untill they talk it out and clear everything 

tell me what do u remember seeing them

Randhir, Sanyukta ,Vidushi , Aryan ,Sanaya

sandhir - definitely tom and jerry... I want them to act in every plot of all sandhir stories on wattpad.. its a wish to see them in those stories

the business attire thing was fulfilled through black coffee. But i really wanted to see sandhir as a married couple who works in different companies in mumbai, where they get hardly time for them. The work, family functions, office parties, in between their tiredness, crave to spend time with other, little fights etc..

for me...sanaya seems funny. like she can play funny characters well not the serious ones.... 

 for aryan. he can play dark and dangrous with less expressions. since his inner talks are effective then talking 

vidushi. she is a all rounder. she can play any role. well. sweet, funny, scary, sad, loving, hot, cunning, evil. but i prefer to see her more in traditional level like typical bahu

Seriously.. Typical bahu.. 🤣🤣

yes...it will be so entertaing to watch her like that after vidushi's character  

Okay lets have some rapid fire 

Favorite movie 

I have a big list of movies..but oldest..."MayaBazar" and "gamyam"

Favorite Actor /Actress (other than parsh) 

actress - there is no one particular... but love to watch savitri, soundarya, nitya menon's movies

no favourite hero. but love to watch shrwanand's movies... 
generally I watch any movie.
if i love the story, comedy & songs

favourite place 

ammama vala illu. (maternal grandmother's house) now they are no more..but the memories..from childhood...

Which place..?

"thungathurthy" my grandma's place... nalgonda district

Favorite ongoing TV show 

presently i am not watching any tv show...place...

favourite food

no favourite....mom's hand made any food...

Okay

Tag any other fellow Sandhir writer..!

IamMonalishaK

Any message to your fans / readers..?

A big heartful thank you for them for loving my stories and always encourging me to write in better way. iam so glad to have them. Sometimes their comments on the story inspire me to write the plot with new ideas and the way they are waiting for my stories even after so many breaks. I'm thankful to them. keep loving my stories and motivate me.

I just wish them to have all the happiness and i will try to update my stories as frequent as possible as a reward to their love

Awww. And thank you lalli for giving me your time for this Iv

And I'm very thankful to you for having me here.. i loved talking with you about my self, my stories and all moments in my sandhir world....
Thank you.. you are truly amazing

Thank You

So guys i hope you enjoyed reading lalli's Iv..
Stay tune for next one..

Signing off,
Anu
:-)