11. 'Be an Upstander' - Prevent Bullying' video


A 4-minute long Cartoon 'Anti-bullying' video This time 



https://youtu.be/eeqQCyQOCPg




This video gives 4 ideas 'How to be an Upstander' & Help a Bullied Person ( so it's also very useful ) 

*So those ideas are:

1. Be a Buddy 

- come close to the bullied friend and say 'Hello' to them or 'Is Everything Ok'? - to let the Bully see that their victim is 'Not Alone' (- & this may be enough to 'discourage them from further bullying at the moment because they 'didn't expect anyone to come & be ready to help their victim now )

*It may work even better if you're Older or Taller than their bully

( Just imagine this example: There is a Little brother & the Big Brother 

- the little Brother is a 'Bullying Victim' - and the Big Brother - taller & stronger than Little Brother's Bully is a 'Buddy type of an Upstander' ) 

( so: The Little brother is being bullied during the Break - & then The Big Brother appears, stands next to him, asks 'Is Everything Ok?' - & looks at the Little Brother's Bully. 

*100% certain that the Bully will Answer 'Yes, it's Ok! - We Were Just Talking!' ... - & walk or even Run away cause he is Scared to Mess up with someone Bigger & Stronger - Someone like The Victim's Big Brother ) 


2. Interrupt

- So just come & tell the Bullied friend that 'You're going somewhere with them' to give them a reason to Walk Away from the bully 'right now' 

*( A good idea could be: Telling the Victim that 'Some Teacher ( choose the name of the teacher The Bully is Afraid of - for better result ) is calling them & sent you to tell them that' ( & when the Bully hears the name of the Teacher they're scared of & know that the Victim is 'going to that teacher now' - no matter if it's true or not: Just Say it to Interrupt the Bullying Scene - they will get scared & 'lose the motivation for bullying for some time'... - so it's worth trying - even if it's just for one break - maybe One Day ) 

( or maybe longer - cause they may get Scared that the Victim will tell 'This Teacher' that They were bullying him/her - so they may suddenly stop bullying & become 'Surprisingly Nice' to their Bullying Victim - just to prevent the victim from telling this teacher about the Bullying Scene ) 


3. Speak Out

- so talk directly to the bully - & say that What they Are Doing is Wrong

( it should work better if you 'Speak Out' in a Larger Group - so not alone, but with some More Friends who like the Bullied Victim - & want to Help Stop the Bully )


4. Tell Someone ( = A Teacher )

- If you're afraid to Speak Out to Help Your Friend 'because their Bully may start bulling you too' - the best Way to help them is Telling a Teacher

( there is nothing Wrong With That - cause when you notice a Fire - You Call the Firefighter to come & extinguish it, right? 

- So remember this comparison: Your Friend's Bully is like a 'Fire' - so when you call a teacher for Help - it's just like 'Calling Firefirghters to Extinguish the Fire You See'. - A 'Natural' - & 'Right' Thing! )










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