Am I the only one who noticed that Tris seems to love her mom more?

Think about it.

In Divergent, she cried when her mom died, but not when her dad died! Sure she was all cried out from her mom, but still.

I mean, I know she loved her parents but her mom seemed favored.

Also, in Insurgent, the Sims were about her mom, not her dad really. (Correct me if I'm wrong, I haven't reread the series in a while, so I might be a bit off)

She always mentioned her mom, how she was not selfless like her mom was, we as readers connected with her mom since she was mentioned so much, but her dad? He's barely mentioned in the book and when he is mentioned it's not crying-because-I-miss-and-love-you scenario. Its omg-I-just-found-out-you-were-Erudite scenario.

In Allegiant (horrible book) Tris finds her mom's journal, she finds out about her mom, but when her dad is mentioned in the journal she's just like "okay... hi dad"

I don't know, I've just always wondered about that, how she was always like "I love you, mom!" (Cried in that part) but with her dad's death, she was just like "dad, no!" And when he was killed she was like "okay let's get Tobias." I get that they had barely any time and they had to go, but still.

Last, in Allegiant with Tris'.....um (she didn't die! She miraculously survived!) Her mom came to get her not her dad (and then she was awoken from a coma and married Tobias and had kids! The end!!!)

Anyway, I'm seeing some favoritism here. We hear a lot about her mom but
What about her dad?

Anyway that's it for my rant