Well, that's a big question to answer, honestly. No one really knows how to be happy in real. Yet I am here with some innovative ways trying to help out some people like me (*rolls eyes*). But before we proceed, I want to ask some questions to you. No. Don't worry, you don't need to answer them on comment box or pm to me or anything. Just close your eyes, and communicate with yourself. Like they say, stay true to yourself. :)

Now, the questions are:

1) What exactly sadness for you?

Are you a loner? Do you feel left out by everyone around you? Do you feel worthless to your core? Do everyone make fun of you and/or try to pull you down? Have you got cheated by your partner? Are your parents violent? Have you lost your job and running out of money? Are you suicidal for not being enough, ever? Or, Do you feel empty inside out?

2) What exactly do you seek for happiness?

Is it the materialistic needs? Is it love? or career? or a satisfying fulfilling life?

Well, those two were basically my questions to you. You don't need to answer them to me or to your bestie or anyone else. Just answer to yourself. Close your eyes and say it. Just say it.

(Look, I have not written this article for wasting your and my time. So if ever the thought crosses your mind, leave. However, do not please think it was easy as pie, for me also.)

Have you noticed those questions? in depth? those were not something I have just surfed the internet and put them here. Those all were inside me and I have gone through each of them in the past. You see, life is spontaneous and fast, never fair and always challenging. So if you just sit down in the corner of your room taking that hard in your chest, trust me, that'll not going to help. You need to get up, open your door and face the world. No matter what you have to fight.

And, I am here just to point out some simple yet effective ways to do that.

a) First and most important one, be lifeward. 

You see you need to think another way around because you've already experienced what inward way of living get you really. So if that didn't work out, you need to do the opposite. As simple as that, right? Focus on your problems, and instead saying "It'll never let me live in peace.", say "Okay, fine. I'll end this chapter anyhow and make myself happy." Trust me, that'll help. Yeah, I know, your problems are bigger than anyone walking on earth and no one can really understand your pains, but instead whining all the way down life, you can at least start with little steps. Right? And if you're already in your worst, this cannot get it worse. So, try it.

b) Get a hold of yourself, switch off your phone (yeah, that's what I am actually saying) and look at Nature. 

God has created this beautiful lush green world for us to enjoy it and what we're actually doing? Staring at our phone's screen and spending hours not doing anything but losing life from our grasp second by second. If you're gasping that it might break your wire from the rest of the world and you'll go through a FOMO (fear of missing out), listen to me, just chill. Nothing like that is going to happen with you. And as a living example, I am here. Still alive. Full of life. Creative (if that counts) and just. I have deactivated all my other social accounts like Facebook, Instagram and Twitter and so and guess what, I still am aware of what exactly happening all around the globe (like G20 summit happening in the Hamburg to Ke$ha with her new single in ages, to if atmosphere and science support, we can really dream of a tour to Titan (moon of Saturn) in the near future) and to top that, I have now a less anxious life. I no longer waste time scrolling on my phone and in the meantime, I am working on my well being instead. If that isn't an improvement, what else is, I don't know.

Stop wasting your time and get your work done. The Universe will be helping to achieve your goals. What? Don't you trust me? Do it yourself, then.

c) Third, never ever negative thoughts enter your system. Yeah, I know sometimes it just happens and you cannot help it, but trust me, actually, you can. 

Your subconscious mind is always listening to your conscious mind and your every thoughts or imagination, whether it is a negative or positive thought, doesn't really matter, get heard by it. This subconscious mind is in reality, the link between you and God. God is omnipresent and omnipotent. he is there on your mind all the time and waits lovingly for you to turn to him. You may have doubts about him, however, you cannot ever deny the presence of your subconscious mind, and that is the point. What you believe, what thoughts you impregnate your subconscious mind, whether by thinking or repeating it verbally, it eventually happens in real. Your subconscious mind has a power greater than you can actually imagine. So just repeat positive thoughts, repeat, that your situations are eventually improving and day by day you're living a prospering, riches filling, harmonious and happy blessed life. And guess what, your subconscious will actually work on it to make it happen in reality. Before arguing with the statement, try it. But one thing is that you cannot neutralise your positive thoughts with contradictory what-ifs. whenever there arise some negative thoughts reverse immediately by repeating positives verbally. 

d) Forgive. 

Oh, yes. They have done some incorrigible mistakes that anyone can ever dream of. But, think about it like this way, holding grudges against them, does it make your situation any better? No. It is making Your life difficult, but there, they are prospering like idiots. That hurts, right? Hurts whom? You. So, let go. And what else you can do? Ignore them. Ignore their fun-making, ignore their criticism, in fact, ignore their entire existence. Ha! That is fun, right? Believe it, you'll feel better. 

There is a more abundant life is waiting for you. Life is not something like 'unfair', life just wants to play. That's the way it has been since the beginning of the universe. So, instead of being a crybaby, be a player and play with it. You'll be amazed what exactly life can get you is beyond anyone's knowledge. 

e) Have faith in God, above all.

Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare, Hare Rama Hare Rama Rama Rama Hare Hare.