Ok so there's this guy I have a crush on but I know he doesn't like me, he told me he didn't have a crush on anyone. (Well, messaged me, we never talk) Um anyway, I sent him this disaster email a while ago that basically told him I had a crush on him...and I've been texting him a lot recently so he definitely knows I have a crush on him.

Thing is...whenever I text him (not only do I sound really desperate) He tells everyone. I feel like I'm being betrayed but we're not friends and I never told him not to tell them.

I really want to be near him and hang out with him....and yes, I want him to fall for me. But it doesn't seem like that's going to happen.

Help? 

Unfortunately, you can't force someone to fall for you, so if this guy is showing no signs of having any romantic feelings for you, it probably means that he won't fall for you. As for him telling people when you text him, it's probably a bravado thing. Boys like to tell their friends that they have loads of people texting them as it makes them look popular and desirable. You shouldn't take offence unless he's mocking your messages, it's probably harmless.

Maybe try and start just being friends with him, and maybe things will develop into more. Spend some time with him in real life and see if you still have the same feelings for him then, maybe when you hang out in real life you'll find that he isn't perfect for you at all.

It sounds like both you and him need to think about your feelings for one another, and spend some quality time together!