So... let's start.

I have some issues with my ex. He broke up with me after almost a month because he thought it was stupid to be with someone if you don't have time to see that person. He doesn't have much time for going out with me (school, his concerts and training) and he thought it would be less painful for him and me if we just stop seeing each other. He thought he was doing the right thing. And we started being just friends.

After breakup, I was very depressed, but now I'm over it. In the time I was trying to find myself he found a new girlfriend  (actually his best friend) and they were like together for 2/3 weeks. It didn't work well and he doesn't know why he did it, from the start he knew it wouldn't work.

3 months after breakup I had almost forgotten how much I loved him. I knew it was a true love. He was my first boyfriend.

Last 2 months we have a complicated relationship because he told me something like 'I'm still not over you', 'I still love you', 'She meant nothing to me' and I kind of believe him. We really had something special and I asked almost all my friends but nobody experienced something like that.

After all, I still love him, but I gave him a choice: I would have to break every single feeling I have for him so that we could be just friends like we use to, or his would find some time for hanging out but if we ever break up again... there is no chance I would ever wanted to have anything with him.

I know that he still loves me, and that he really means what he said. And I still feel the same. But I'm not sure I can get over him. I met a lot of guys after him, but I just can't fall in love again.

Now it's his choice to decide what is the best, but I need some advice. Why can't I get over him? How to know what is the best decision? And.. how to really fall in love with someone new? Can I love someone the same way I loved him?

You can't get over him because you're thinking too much about him and seeing him as this perfect guy who you had this perfect love for. You need to open your heart to different people if you want to get over him, and accept that your relationship with others will differ to the relationship you had with this guy. You will be able to fall in love again, that I'm sure, you just need to (as hard as it sounds) almost forget about this guy and just treat him like a friend if you're really committed to getting over him. It will take time, but try and look for other guys that you think you might like and would get on with. The only sure way to get over someone is to find someone else who you like even more.