Hi Ella, I think I am bi. But I don't want to be. I can't stop myself from fantasising whenever I see a girl with a big booty. I get attracted to her, and it really turns me on. I don't know what to do. I'm really confused about my sexuality. I don't want to be bi. I like boys a lot, but I think I like girls too, ever since I had a threesome with my best friends. I am really confused about myself, and it's really stressing me out. I don't know who I am, and what I want. Help please.

First off, you need to accept that you can't change your sexuality and if you're bisexual you have to embrace that fact. Feeling sexually attracted to girls and feeling romantically attracted to girls are two different things, and what you might find is that although in theory you fantasise about being with girls, you may find that in reality you don't feel romantically about girls. Research more about bisexuality, and really address the feelings you're having- are the feelings you're having just a passing phase or something that you know are permanent?

Don't stress out about finding out your sexuality, take your time and experiment with things. Maybe you'll find a sexuality that works for you. A sexual attraction and a romantic attraction for someone are totally different things, so try and work out whether you're feelings for girls are purely sexual attraction or something more emotional. Everyone takes time to find out their sexuality, so don't stress out that you're still confused- you'll realise who you are eventually!