1 once you have kids very very few date nights 

2: no time to your selfs and just relax and enjoy your selfs 

3: no more just the two of you vacations or tips again till many many years 

4 not getting good nights sleep for who knows how long 

5:no more staying in bed all day just cuddling 

6: no more sleeping in 

7: no more just you and your friends for the day