When a women loves, she gives all of her heart, mind, body and soul. Men does the same. But after some months, the relationship doesn't get intense, it becomes casual. The men starts ignoring and "getting busy" and the women tries to do everything that brings the charm of her "perfect relationship" back. The men won't breakup. They will simply show disinterest. They want a side option. " what if". Post breakup, the men will mis for a day, drink for the eve, and get drawn in excell sheets and PowerPoint presentations the next day leaving the past behind. The women however, goes back, read every single text, cry an hour over it. Feel depressed. Miss all the work for curling into a ball and crying. Block him from every social networking site. But that doesn't work. She has to understand that she has to block him from her head. She has to cry over his each memory and fake promises. That is the only option for moving on. The men already did. The women takes alot of time. Because she loves so deeply, she believes he is only and will always be " her great love" . They are perfect lovey dovey couple. She will marry him and die at his house. Breakup never comes in her mind. But for a girl, who loved for the first time, to " her great love " it isn't a heart break. It feels like her legs are too heavy to stand. The lower back is stabbed repeatedly with knife. It takes all of her energy and more to give a small smile to that neighbourhood aunty. Just to show that she's fine. The guy made fun of her by playing with her emotions and she just lost her virginity to someone who is no more interested in spending the lifetime together, when she used to think that she will give that right to her " great love" and no one else will touch her in an intimate way. But she is expected to still move on. Ppl think she's over reacting. Breakups are common. Why is she making a big deal out of it? It is a big deal because she has seen all her future with her " great love" in those few months and for men it was just a phase of life. She does move on. Eventually. She is strong after all. But the pain is never gone. The memories stay. The fake smile appears And she constantly feels that she just lost a piece of herself who simply left her life.