Meeting 2: Tips for Standing or Stopping A Bully
Bullying is an on-going thing and it won't stop unless it is taken care with. The quicker it's taken care of, the better off it would be. Escalation can lead to the authorities being involved.
First off, let's off review the types of bullying again.
Physical Bullying: Verbal abuse, Inappropriate Gestures, Harassment (Can be any type), and Discrimination.
Cyber bullying: Bullying that's online. It can also make Physical Bullying and authorities being involved.
What tips of how stop bullying?
Physical Bullying:
-Ignore them and walk away
-Roasting them
Example: Bully: You look ugly!
You: I was dressing as you today. (Then walk away, do this less often.)
-Lie and admit them that they are right then just walk away rolling your eyes or imagining of flipping them off.
-Telling an adult or staff (Parents, Teachers, or Counselors)
Cyber bullying:
-Blocking them. (You can't see their b.s they'll put up and easily to be ignored.)
-Report them (Reports can send warnings to their account and too many reports will shut down the account.)
-Tell Your School Counselor (They'll help you even though you feel very uncomfortable by them or not. It needs to be taken care of.
-If it escalates to threats, stalking, or telling to suicide or self harm, tell an authority. (They might confiscate it, however as long you're not downloading illegal stuff on there, you're fine. Yeah, it might be embarrassing.)
Note: If you're witnessing your friend being cyber bullied, you can report them too.
The following things that need to reported right away to the authorities.
Threats online- Threaten to kill, harm, rape (don't laugh -_-), etc is a big no-no. If the bully types it whether not or going to do it, it's still a threat.
Stalking online- This can occur physically and online. It's very startling and can escalate. Physical stalking is when your ex or some stranger watches you. You see them every move you make and might stalk you while sleeping. If that is, call the cops right away. Online stalking is a bit scary. It mostly end up being strangers such as predators, or hackers, and ominous. The stalker will message you of what you are doing.
Stalker: Hello, Mark Jeffrey
Mark: Who is this? How do you know me?
Stalker: I drove past my black car a few minutes ago.
Mark saying "Wtf? Weirdo."
Stalker: Did you say wtf and call me a weirdo? That's rude.
Mark: O.o, you're creeping me out, go away you creep.
Stalker: I know where you live and I will kill you.
Mark: You don't know where I live.
Stalker: 516 Morger Street.
Mark: *Blocks him*
Stalker: *Breaks through block* Hahaha, you can't block me.
Mark called the authorities and the cops traced the stalker that's way in California, however Mark was in Georgia. Stalker was sent criminal charges for threat and cyber stalking..
Did someone you know or yourself have ever encountered this? I know some Youtubers do this for trolls, however they censored out the confidential information.
-Bully telling someone to kill themselves or self harm online. This has happened alot in this world of technology and it's over the edge. The victim may commit suicide or cut them selves. Victims; just report it to the authorities or bystanders report it right away before it's too late.
Now here's some tips you shouldn't do.
1. -Tell the bullies to get hurt or killed.
2. -React on impulse.
3. -Bash them out.
1. If the bully was being bullied and kind of slamming it back onto you. If you tell them to commit suicide or cut themselves or whatever, you'll be the one in jail.
2. Reacting on impulse is what the bully wants you to do. They'll keep going and it will drive you off the edge. They say something rude and you get angry at them. Don't do that! Just smiled and walk away pretending you didn't encountered them or cus them in your mind because there's one thing that a bully can't do, READ YOUR THOUGHTS!
3. Bashing the bully can lead to all out war. The bully harm the victim, however the victim like talks behind their back and make people team up against them. Then they'll attack. The bully will gather up her or his friends and attack. It will last for a long time. The people might be convinced that the victim is now a bully or just lost it. This isn't a good choice to do because it can lead someone getting hurt.
I am going wrap this up here. If you have any questions, you can pm me or ask me in the comments. Next, meeting is for the tips of the parents. Happy Halloween.
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