She is such a slut. Whore. Tramp. And my personal favourite: tart...I was called this once by a boyfriend's ex. Too funny. But seriously, there are so many words we use to degrade women. And all because of what? A little bit of sex? Like my mom always said to me: Nobody really wants to die a virgin.

I suppose we all judge people based on the choices they make around their own bodies. Tattoos, piercings, the clothes they wear. But does that reflect on them? Or more on us for passing the judgement? I pierced my eye brow when I was a teenager. My aunt lamented that I "used to be so pretty." I would pull on it when she looked at me. I thought I at least owed her that.

We all have difficult aspects in our lives, and we never know what someone else is going through, so why slut shame? What's the point, really? And if you think about it, you can only slut shame another girl until you have sex yourself, right? Don't you want to have sex eventually without being ashamed of your choice?

Here's the news flash: having sex doesn't make you a slut. Even having sex with more than one person doesn't make you a slut. And another thing, how many people you have sex with isn't anyone's business anyway.

People have sex because it feels good and it's a way to feel closer to another person. Maybe there are other reasons to have sex that I haven't even thought about, because I'm a little out of the "cool loop" or whatever you call it...but it's not my job to worry about who is having sex or why.

My Advice: Don't slut shame your fellow woman (or man). You will probably have sex at some point in your life and the title "slut" should not be hanging over your head when you decide to do it. Girl Power, people! Let's support and raise each other up. For God's sake, it's about time we did!