Problem by @smileyesxoxo

Since i have yet to experience those nasty comments said infront of my face (thank god HAAHHA ) , i cant say that i can relate to you 100% , but offcourse i have seen it a million times on videos , dramas ...

If you would want me to give you some advices , i think that you should just ignore that classmate of yours since if you pay attention to it , he / she would just continue more to agitate you .

Well , we didnt choose the date that we wanted to born on and you should definitely not feel ashamed about your birthdate !! Cmon , its the day when an army is born kekeke 😂😂  If you see that classmate of yours insulting and making fun of your friend's allergy again , i think you should just stand by your friend and support her whenever you can , cheer her up and perhaps go out so that your friend can forget about it easier .  If you are too afraid to step in incase that classmate of yours comes and mock you instead , i guess you can tell your other friends or a trustable teacher whos on your side .

As of making new friends in a new school , offcourse i would say that it isnt the easiest thing to do . Pshh , everyone goes through it at some point of time . Well , i was pretty much blessed to have a good bunch of friends who i can trust since primary school ( i had a really good childhood no lie here ) and i guess because of that , it had boosted my own self esteem and encourage me to step up first to talk to others .

I suppose that when everyone enters a new school , we are all nervous deep inside and wants a friend that we can immediately click with . Im sure if you smile more and show your fun side , it would attract many of your new classmates to you and by having small conversations , friendships can easily be forged . Dont be afraid to start it first !!

I guess you can start the ball rolling by introducing yourself and casually hint that you are a kpop fan ( trust me this works ) . Since kpop is kinda popular right now , im sure that there must be a few fans around your new environment and when you stumble upon one of them , its likely that you two can continue the conversation easier by talking about your biases and all that stuff ^^  if they arent a kpop fan , do not panic and run away . Its okay ^^ just ask them what are some of their hobbies and see if you two have some grt chemistry and similar taste .

And oh , you can always "make" your friend fall in love with the korean culture by showing videos and talking about them ( but not too much though !! )  at least thats what i did HAHAAH my bff in school used to hate bts and look where is she now . Shes such a trash for them and we fangirl together all the time ;)

( totally unrelated by ok personal example :

Im the vice of my cca ( co curriculum activity- compulsory for all students in Singapore ) and since i have a high position , it is a must for me to talk to my juniors and make friends as fast as possible . Sometimes i approach them with this method and im taken aback at the number of kpop fans that i have stumbled upon ^^ usually we can have a decent 5 minute or so conversation just about kpop and then you can be alittle sneaky by asking for their numbers or if they wanna hang out later )

Good luck !!