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Problem by @navymirene_sy

Hey ... what you are facing right now is somewhat similar to me now as well . I mean , im having my higher chinese o levels ( one of the major exams in Singapore ) soon in about a month's time . Yes , its stressful and definitely anxiety attack is quite normal and might happen to any students here .

I think you may be too stressed out about this issue and with your parents' constant nagging , pushing and also scoldings ,that made you feel even more nervous about it , and perhaps you might feel even more weight on the shoulders since you know that they have really high hopes and expectations for you .

I strongly believe that you should choose what career / path you would want to go down in the future . Its your life and not theirs .

If you dont fight for yourself now , you will forever be their puppet . What makes you think that , if you dont stand up for yourself now and let them know , they might think that you are just indecisive and dont know what you are doing / " following friends" which may be a misconception?

I suggest that you talk to them over dinner and bring this topic up to explain how you actually feel when they tell you about the career choice that they want you to go with and show how you really dont like it at all . If you dont talk it out , they will never know about it , and even if they actually do know but still push you for it , i think that seeking help from a teacher may work too .

Sometimes , our parents would never listen to us , but they would listen to the teachers , so yep .

Im not sure if you are always studying , but i think that you might wanna have to relieve some stress if not too much would only bring harm to you .

Go out with your friends more often , laugh , talk and play with them like how a proper teenager in school should be . We fall , but we pick up ourselves again . Theres no success without failure .
Dont worry about it if you see your grades slipping alittle . I mean , you needa monitor it and yes it is important, but to me , if you are happy and contented , you will do great in life .

Because , without happiness in whatever you are doing , everything would be pointless and you would feel that its just another burden on your shoulders to carry and you will lose interest .

Please please please dont feel and be so stressed out anymore :(( its not good for you !!!

Best of wishes !!!

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