So it's not the end of the year YET. But I'm doing this early because we're going to be busy af in December, only 4 months until we leave for a few weeks in Italy AND we need to sort out so,w health stuff before we go so we can take our meds internationally and all that. So I'm going to do the end of year data now since it's close to the end of the year anyway. I did mid year in august (a little later than I'd planned but still it got done) so here's how much has changed since then, plus some bonus bits.

Current headcount
Active: 18
Fragmented: 4
Dormant: 4
NPCs: 1 (possibly 2)
Total: 23

**from here only the active alters will be counted
Role assignment:
Host: Somnia
Co host: L
Primary protector: Achilles
Secondary protector: N/A
Sexual protector: Damien
Overseer: Prismo
Gatekeeper: Prismo
Soother: Cat, Luka
Inner child: Lo
Messenger: Zachiera
Helper: Ahk, Zag
Emotional regulation: Moros
Sleep regulation: Hypnos
Symptom holder: Link
Financial advisor: Achilles
Babysitter: Achilles
Unassigned: Angel, Aries, Hanni
Fragmented: Frankie, Doom, Doc, Hiccup
Trauma holder: Doom
Socialiser: Astarion

Interpersonal relationships:
Family unit #1: Somnia, Ahk, L (Polycue)
Cat, Lo (siblings, children to L)
Family unit #2: Zag, Hypnos (partners)
Morpheus (child of)
Moros (older brother to Hypnos)
Relationship: Astarion, Moros
Relationship: Cat, Luka
Damn manwhore who hooks up with any make that consents to it: Damien, not even going to try and list all the FWB relationships he has.

Gender split:
Masc: 12
Fem: 1
Androgynous: 4
Majority pronouns: they/them, he/they

Sexuality split:
Hetero: 0 lmao
Bi: 11
Pan: 1
Mlm: 12 (*incl bi men)
Wlw: 1 (*incl bi women)
Ace: 0
Unlabelled: 0
Poly: 5
Open to open relationships: 13
Strictly monogamous: 3
**majority masc attracted.

Fictive to brainmade split:
Fictive: 13
Brain made: 6
Mix of both: 1

Age range:
Oldest: immortal being
PHYSICALLY oldest: 35
Youngest: 14
Average: mid 20s

Age split:
Adult: 15
Minor: 3
Regressors: 5

Human/non human split:
Human: 8
Non human: 8
Half: 1

Total splits from aug - now:
2.

Total splits this year:
4 (unless someone shows up last minute)

Current frequent fronters:
Somnia, Damien, Astarion, Achilles, Ahk

Average switch count:
Once to twice a day, although others are almost always co-conscious, coming and going throughout the day.

Average disassociation count:
Mild dissociation around once a day due to overcrowding in front.
Severe typically only happens when triggers are encountered.

Head space mapping:
As far as we're concerned, everyone but host has full access up to the borders of the forest.

Major events (jan-aug):
•Hypnos births first NPC, Morpheus. Zagreus being the other parent.
•Des falls dormant. Currently sleeping in the library.
•Garden in headspace is expanded.
•Preparation among protectors for Italy trip early next year.
•Leg pain flare up forces occasional use of a walking stick. Achilles tackles the issue by coaching Somnia through it via co-con.

Major events (aug-nov):
• 2 years on testosterone!
• top surgery consultation booked for nov next year (OOF that waiting list)
•Italy booked and paid for
•found out the stalker from a few years back is a lolicon- yikes. (I'm not surprised at all the transphobe is into kids)
•unearthed a memory from the massive memory gap that was years 9-11. Still not sure which alter was fronting at the time, we think it may be a now dormant one.

Notes:
• only 4 splits this year! That's so much less than the past few years, good work guys :)
•I can't BELIEVE Morphie is 9 months old now holy SHIT. He's gonna be 1 in February that's NUTS.
•Hanni I fully blame you for throwing us down the kpop photo card collecting rabbit hole.
•Achilles you are an actual saint for doing so much heavy lifting this year, thank you.
•I dread our Spotify wrapped, it's going to be a hot mess since we all share the same account but have diffent playlists.
•Hypnos you've done amazingly this year, keeping up with your tasks THROUGH pregnancy and raising a new born, you're stronger than I'll ever be that's for sure.

Bonuses!
one thing we've done a bunch of this year was documenting and drawing out events/things to take note of. This way we can improve collective memory and communication. So here's some of the stuff we've made this year.

Face claim chart! Made using artbreeder and my limited photoshop skills. I got as close as I possibly could, it's kind of hard to replicate exact details with limited tools and skills. Hypnos has grown his hair out since I made this though, so just pretend his hair is longer. Dolly and Ahk don't need artbreeders tho bc they have live action sources.

Switching guide, to identify which kind and what the trigger was.

Doodles of the baby and his parents so they can have pictures of him outside the headspace. He's a cutie, has started babbling too so everyone has been trying to make him say something funny as his first word. Honestly we're all obsessed with him he's so fucking cute.

Not everyone has gotten to finishing their self portraits in their personal styles yet, but here's those who have.

Bonus funny doodle Hanni did to explain how he feels about Damien's massive tits lol.

I agree Hanni that man has bigger tits than me and I'm fucking trans.

And just for the lolz, some of my fav pluralkit conversations we've had this year.

I still poke fun at him for going like a whole year without realising this.

Not even a few days after this, it arrived and Aries was QUICK to christen it in the ocean

That fish has zero fear it was cloudy as fuck that day and they're all "fuck it I'm going swimming" also rrrgghhh look at those testosterone shoulders gender gender gender. I can't fucking was it until we can swim topless.

That's about it for this year's data, unless something significant happens in December I'd say that's about all that's happening this year. Only 4 splits!!!! That's nuts!! Compared to the worst years like 2020 that's less than half. And a few dormancies from fragments that didn't cause too much of an impact, biggest dormancy was Des. But I hesitate to call that a proper dormancy since they're still there, just sleeping. I think they just really needed a break tbh, so they went into a mini coma lol. I'm not too worried, we can still physically see them and know they're ok. And if anything did happen to them, Prismo would know immediately.

I gotta say I'm proud of them all, since the awakening™️ in like late 2022, communication really skyrocketed. Which I had heard about happening to others, so I think the next task is recovering depressed memories which is,,, a bit tricky sometimes. We're going to tread carefully, we definitely don't need to re-traumatise ourselves. But given the fact one did get uncovered from the big three year gap, I'd say the brain is ready to start slowly progressing.

In truth, I don't think we'll ever be 100% functional, there's just some things that we can't change because of co-morbid disorders like autism impacting the way we function. BUT we won't be completely lost and useless, with the right accommodations we definitely can reach a point where we can live fairly normally.

Let's see how the next year goes, hopefully even better