We make the misteak of after being hurt we continue to see the good, when that person never saw our worth to begin with.

Take heed please... I had to do better!

1. I can't be your first everything(He just wanted to be the first to take my virginity)

2. I'm gone hurt you.... Dang I'm gone break your heart, and I'm your first. (Warning comes before destruction, but didn't see it that way at the time. But I was shocked and was questioning why he would say sum like that ya know)

3. Just leave me alone I don't wanna talk to you at all. (Should have gotten the hint when he was ignoring me, but a lil part of me didn't want to let go)

4. I've been busy, All I do is work(he was putting me last)

5. I've been tied up with work, and dealing with issues at home.(Excuse after excuse)

6. I'm not paying for that, but would you put gas in my car? (That was the day he took me to his job to get me a new tire, and his cowker asked him was he going to pay because I was his girl He said no, but him saying No wasn't the problem. It was the way that he said it! "Uh uh I ain't paying for that, aye but can you put gas in my car?" I felt so disrespected and offened. I said no, but I wanted to wait to check him in private about the situation, but never gotten the chance to.)

7. He didn't wanna communicate that much.(he was emotionally unavailable)

8. During sex he never put my needs first.(I have never experienced an orgasm, and having sex for the first few times I was at least expecting to experience it.)

9. I never saw his place, he tripped about me asking to go in. (That's the reason I was always questioning everything because I felt like he was hiding something)

10. He tripped about me always asking too many questions.(He never reassured me that things were okay, He just dismissed my feelings instead with excuses like; I'm always tripping, I be doing too much etc, and for that reason I felt like he had some other stuff going on)

11. Tripping about me tagging him into a post. (I didn't think it was a big deal because it wasn't like I posted it on his wall, I just commented his name in the post on the comment section so that he can get a notification it's not like I wanted everyone to know our business and plus I'm pretty sure those other people who commented can care less about you)

12. When I confronted him over text about how he was treating me. he brought it to fb and tried to make me look crazy, instead of telling me how he felt right back over text. (If a guy diss you on SOCIAL MEDIA or to ANYBODY! he ain't nun & you can't trust him ain't no REAL MAN gone blast thier "GIRL" to anybody especially not to the whole FB... Leave him alone💯)

13. Whenever he got mad he didn't talk to me for 2 weeks.(I should have left him alone the first time he did this, but I was waiting on him because I didn't know any better at the time. If he ain't entertainig you, then it's someone else. But the second time he did this that meant it was really over.)

14. He walked away so easily (He was never 100% all the way in and I shouldn't have been either)

Those were the things that were done and said by my ex. People, please don't ignore your intuition.

Don't let the heart that didn't love you, keep you from the one that will.

Everyone doesn't need closure unless they are mature enough. Otherwise, you know what happens when people want "closure" and then BOOM!.... Y'all done ended up having sex, and now y'all temporarily back together again. Sometimes it's best to leave things the way they are. So see it for what it is and leave it there.