Serious topic.

This irks me.

Memes like these.

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Seriously?

Maybe I'm too old but why is being batshit crazy amd driving people mad considered awesome? Do the people posting this shit realise what relationships with actual 'crazy' people do to them?

It's not bloody cute. It's not adorable. It's not quirky. You're not boss.

Why?
Why do you want to be crazy? It's so screwed up that mental illnesses are so stigmatised but at the same time, people who are blessed enough to have a sound mental capabilities want to be crazy. What?

Why?

Actual mental illnesses are not cute. Do you realise just how much they and everyone else around them suffer. It is so hard to constantly be on medication. To not trust your own self and your own mind?
To be in a constant state of stagnation because there are times when you just cannot go on.

Mental illnesses are real. People suffer and survive through them and with them and you, with your stupid memes, think it's cool?

Really?

Why do you want to be the type of girl that makes a guy suffer? I'm not a feminist but I consider myself an equalist. Equality for both males and females where a state of inequality exists. There are so many movements begging for the global community to embrace femininity and embrace women as the blood kick-ass beings they are and you go and throw all that away.

With your penchant for wanting to do yourself down. Really?

Is that really what you want?

Men don't deserve that. They don't deserve a women who, with her awesome craziness, will emotionally abuse him. And let's be real- no one gives 2 rats asses if men are the one being emotionally abused in a relationship because apparently it's just so amazing when women do that. So amazing that they'd post memes like this:

This is bullshit. And clearly it is now so common that people are making memes of an actual characteristic of an emotionally abusive relationship.

Constantly making the other person feel guilty is not just a partner being needy or needing validation. It's a form of controlling that relationship.

So this- all of the above memes are absolute bullshit.