so i'm a non-binary lesbian i go by they/them pronouns, i've only had one relationship with a girl we had a two year relationship but things happened and we broke up i really learned a lot with that relationship. And i don't regret any of it and i also learned a lot about myself as well, i live with homophobic and transphobic parents as well as brother which i hate so much because i have to go by she/her pronouns and have to hide almost everything about myself because if they find out then i get kicked out and i don't have money to move out on my own yet. I remember when i was in the relationship when they found out i was in a relationship with a girl my grandma actually went through my room and went through my journal that i had when i was in freshman year of high school and i remember being so mad and losing the trust that i had in them to this day i hide almost anything i write down so my parents can't find it, but i remember them also telling me to break up with her and i never did and i lied to them saying i did but i never did. And this has nothing to do with this but my parents don't know that i'm little either, but anyways because they are homophobic and transphobic they like to have conversations on how bad gay and trans people are and make fun of pronouns which everyone has pronouns and fun fact everyone in my family is homophobic and transphobic most of the time i can let go because i know what i believe and stand for and who i am so i don't let bother me but there are a lot of times that it will bother me and can't let go cause at i am who i am. Fun fact when i was a kid i asked my mom at least 4 times if i was a boy or a girl and when i was like 6-7 i had my barbies have families and the kens would be the bad guys and i also made my barbies kiss. I hope that you guys have a good day or night and if not my dms are always open.